There seem to be more and more English posts in the male members’ date reviews lately. They’re appearing pretty frequently, and judging by the wording, I imagine they’re from wealthy foreign residents in Japan who are making a lot of offers—probably one person in particular. With the weak yen giving foreign members relatively more spending power, we Japanese papas need to step up our game too.

If a woman tells you herself that she works in that industry, she’ll probably list her occupation clearly enough for you to understand. If she doesn’t say anything, then there’s no way to know. That said, if you’re using this question as an excuse to discriminate based on someone’s occupation, then I think you should actually meet and talk to her before deciding whether you want to pursue anything. She might be a really wonderful person—or someone you’re perfectly compatible with. At least watch Pretty Woman... Trying to discriminate against someone because of their occupation is just incredibly rude, in my opinion. If you only see women as partners for sex, then I can understand why people would tell you to go to an adult entertainment establishment instead. And as for discriminating against people in those professions, Japan seems to have become a country where occupational discrimination is considered acceptable—especially since the COVID relief payment lawsuit apparently ruled that such discrimination wasn’t illegal. (Though it hasn’t reached the Supreme Court yet, so who knows.) If even Japanese courts consider discrimination constitutional, then perhaps it’s only natural for the questioner to discriminate as well. But personally, I feel that anyone who discriminates based on occupation should leave the site and go somewhere else.

First and foremost, I think you need to be the kind of papa who doesn’t constantly check or worry about things like those surveys. In my case, although it might technically violate the rules, I don’t negotiate the allowance or discuss such matters with girls I particularly like. Partly because I want to avoid women who are too accustomed to clubs or who treat it like a job. I think you can tell from how they make time for you that day and from their usual day-to-day updates. You also need to be broad-minded enough to understand that, depending on their circumstances, some women may be weighing or choosing between working in the adult entertainment industry and joining a club.