I’m jealous of those of you whose papa (a male supporter) offers 20,000 or 30,000 yen for going without a condom.

“Charging extra…” It’s not a job, after all, so I can’t help thinking that way. First, I think you should consider whether you’d be okay ending things with this person. If you are, I’d suggest bringing it up for a different reason, like: “I’m sorry, but I’m having a harder time financially than I expected. Would you be able to increase my allowance a little?” That may still be a bit too direct, though. Saying it’s because you don’t want to use protection would be even worse, so I think you should come up with a better reason if possible. If you don’t really want to end things, then try to find another good papa (a male supporter) as soon as you can. Once you find a good papa, ask your current one about increasing your allowance if your terms don’t work out. If they refuse, I think it’s fine to end things.

papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t something you should do against your will. If you don’t want to, say no! If you want a higher allowance, negotiate! That said, although it may not be very common, there is still a risk of sexually transmitted infections, so please proceed with caution.