I’m the one who asked about men’s esthetic massage salons.
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Um, sorry if I gave the wrong impression. I’m not criticizing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) at all. It’s true that I once had a papa (a male supporter) give me a large sum of money when I was in trouble, and I’m grateful to the many papas I’ve parted ways with on good terms. I just somehow feel that working at a men’s esthetic massage salon suits me better, even though the types of men are not that different, and I was wondering why.
The customers at men’s esthetic massage salons are also mostly in their 30s to 50s, including business owners, doctors, and plenty of high earners. (Of course, there’s a wide range.)
I’d really appreciate it if people could seriously explain the differences based on that.
And thank you to everyone who has already answered.
I wonder if what men look for in women in papa-katsu and at men’s esthetic massage salons is actually a little different. Personally, I don’t think the conversation is all that different. On the other hand, could a papa get hooked if I showed him the techniques I use at the salon?
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Regarding what Fuu said—“Can there really be nothing but nice people among an unspecified number of partners?”—about 95% of the customers at men’s esthetic massage salons are submissive, so if we take complete control, they can’t make any moves on us at all. That might not be the case at regular soaplands or health establishments, where customers have a wider variety of sexual preferences.
Most of them are just cute, ordinary guys, and none of them do anything they know I dislike. So I’ve never been asked for intercourse or excessive sexual services involving mucous membrane contact. I can satisfy them without doing anything like that.
Also, even my earliest available appointment is usually two to five weeks out, so many customers look forward simply to seeing me. Maybe that’s why I don’t attract those kinds of problematic men.
> Are what men look for in women through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and at men’s esthetic salons really that different…?
Not just a little—I think they’re completely different.
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You can’t choose your customers—they’re an unspecified number of different men—but if you’re popular enough to have a two- to five-week wait, does that mean there aren’t any problematic men?
Men who make you feel sick just looking at them, or men who smell really bad—do they not come?
Is that really true? The more popular you are, the more men you meet, so I’m sure there’s bound to be a certain number of weird ones.
But I suppose you don’t have a problem with that because you can look at even those kinds of men as cute little boys, like some kind of goddess.
You already have your dream job at the men’s esthe, and you don’t even have any openings left, so I think you should just keep earning money there and stop worrying about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I gave a serious answer about the difference between work and dating. I think the others answered seriously as well.
Do you really believe you can win a man over by showing off the skills you use at work? Please ask a serious question.
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I think it’s been either ① or ② from the beginning. Doesn’t it seem like you have no intention of asking a serious question?
Adding this after reading Mac’s answer again:
> Hmm, I wonder. Actually, I know a papa-katsu girl who works at a men’s esthetic salon and is much more popular there than in papa-katsu, so I’d been wondering the same thing as the person who asked this question.
When assessing how serious something is, I look at the entire wording of the question, not just the content of the question itself.
For example, even if the question itself is a ④ or ⑤, the way it’s worded could make it a ① or ②. That’s what happened with the previous question.
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I’ve occasionally gone to men’s relaxation salons. You don’t have to actively pursue anyone, and you can just lie back and let things happen. I recommend them when your shoulders are tense.
There’s probably no point showing off your massage techniques in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Since papa-katsu involves a certain emotional distance, there are limits to how far you can get.
Men go to them for different reasons, so I choose between the two depending on what I’m looking for. Neither is bad.
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