I’m not trying to make fun of anyone, but I feel this is probably a question that those of you with plenty of experience would classify as either ① or ②.

Embarrassingly, I’m struggling with premature ejaculation. I had been in a sexless relationship for years and developed porn-induced ED, so when I first joined the club, I couldn’t always penetrate or reach orgasm with a real woman. Since then, I started seeing someone I met here, and after also taking a break from porn, I’ve been able to ejaculate again. However, now I’m finishing far too quickly. I’m still seeing the first person I made an offer to. Since she knows what I was like in the beginning, she encourages me by saying, “You’re better than you were at first,” but… I don’t see many male members who seem to have the same problem. Has anyone managed to overcome it? What methods worked for you? And from the perspective of female members, are there times when having a partner who finishes quickly is actually convenient because things end sooner?