Am I wrong for calculating things based on the time I’m tied up?
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I’d like 50,000 yen for two hours, but I prefer people who finish quickly without dinner, so I rotate between about seven papas offering 50,000–70,000 yen for three hours.
But when dinner takes more than two hours and then they want three hours in a private room too, I feel like 10,000 yen an hour is way too little to be worth it.
Why do papas want to have dinner or walk around outside? What are they feeling?
I don’t want people to see me, and I hated it when someone held my hand, so I really don’t want to walk around outside…
Even shopping—or rather, walking around together in the sunlight—is something I honestly dislike.
Do you all put up with it and go out for walks or meals?
Also, how can I tell them to stop holding my hand in public?
The definition of a good papa (a male supporter) differs between you and me.
Since you seem to prefer a papa who offers good value for money, I hope you find someone who fits that preference.
If I were a woman doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’d look for someone whose personality and physical compatibility matched mine rather than focusing on how generous (well-paying) he was.
If you can have an adult relationship (intimate) with anyone, I think you’d make more money working in the adult entertainment industry.
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Kazu, you’re really keeping watch. Maybe I should go keep watch too. You mean the pantyhose lady from the column, right? She was incredibly beautiful.
That’s every man’s dream. I’ll do my best too.
It’s a completely different thing from the efficient kind of relationship you can have through the adult entertainment industry.
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You’re looking for a transactional relationship where you meet at a hotel, part ways at the hotel, and quickly get it over with, right?
If you’re cute, you might be better off trying a high-end delivery service or an upscale men’s esthetic salon. Since they charge by the hour, it may be more time-efficient for you. And if the session runs over, you can get an extension fee too.
Quit this place and do your best at the interview.
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The way you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) sounds like you’re treating it as a job to make money—it’s pretty close to the sex industry.
That’s far removed from what papa-katsu is supposed to be.
To me, papa-katsu is more about being with someone you can walk around town with, who reaches for your hand and hugs you because she genuinely wants to, with the allowance as a baseline.
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I don’t think it’s for other people to decide what’s right or wrong.
Personally, I don’t think an allowance-based relationship is something you do with someone you wouldn’t want to be seen walking alongside. I don’t think people are forcing themselves to go out in public or have meals together.
Based on your question, it sounds like what you’re doing is closer to prostitution.
Please don’t ask questions about prostitution on the “papa-katsu Anonymous Q&A.”
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