I’m considering joining, but I’m worried that someone I know—such as my partner or one of their friends—might find out. So I have a request.
Could you make my profile invisible to specific people whom I don’t want to know that I’m a member?
Since the club’s system apparently doesn’t allow women to view men’s profiles directly, I would provide information identifying specific people—such as their address, name, or workplace. If anyone matching that information is a member, I’d like my profile to be hidden from them.
I understand that privacy laws may prevent you from telling me whether someone is a member or whether they were actually blocked. It would be enough if you could quietly take action only when a request is made and the person in question happens to be a member. Would that be difficult?
If this is possible, could you let me know roughly when it might be implemented?
When someone has connections with affluent circles, it’s easy to imagine accidentally running into people they know. The more systems there are to prevent such problems, the more comfortably women can register, so I sincerely hope you’ll consider this.
papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) exists in an underground world practiced by only a very small handful of people, so it’s not exactly something you can do with peace of mind.
If you’re worried about the unlikely chance of an awkward near-miss, you should stay in the legitimate mainstream world.
There’s no reason to go out of your way to step into it.
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We’ve been handling situations like that for some time.
During the interview, you can provide us with the man’s real name and phone number. If he’s already registered, we can hide your profile from him from the outset.
However, there are a couple of issues:
Men who join after you register won’t have been checked, so if someone you know signs up later, there’s a chance they may be able to see your profile.
Also, if that person has purchased a separate phone for use with the club, it won’t match the number you provided, so they may not be caught by the check.
If you’re concerned about those risks as well, you could register with a photo where only your face is blurred.
Then, if a man wants to see the unblurred photo when making an offer, you can first have him provide details such as his occupation and decide whether to accept based on that.
In that case, you won’t be given his real name or phone number, so you’ll need to make your decision based on clues like his occupation and approximate age, such as being in his 40s.
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I believe it’s already possible to name specific people and have them hidden. That’s come up several times in answers to questions posted here.
That said, if you’re really that worried, you might be better off using a salon or something similar.
Also, just to be clear, this is a question box, not a request box.
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