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Jan 27, 2023 18:51
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The thing is, he messages me on LINE every day, and if I don’t reply, he sends follow-up messages. He also calls almost every day. Even though he says it’s hard for him to take time off work, he asked me to take time off because he wants to go on a trip together. I was already thinking, “Ugh…” when he asked for both my company address and my home address. I thought, “What? Why? Absolutely not!”
When I dodged the question, he messaged me saying, “So you don’t trust me…” I left him on read, and then he sent another message like, “I just want us to get closer…” When I continued ignoring him, he sent yet another similar follow-up message.
I didn’t feel like replying, and I was worried that if I answered right then, I might end up complaining, so I ignored him to give myself time to calm down. It’s now been five days with no word from him.
He’s the kind of person who keeps messaging me even when I don’t reply, so I figured he’d eventually contact me again even if I left him on read. I was planning to say something when he did—but he hasn’t messaged me at all(笑). Do you think he’s finally given up on me?
4 answers
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Why not just block them? That would solve the problem instantly. Why drag it out?
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Rather than him giving up, it sounds like that man cut ties with you.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> Do you think he’s finally given up?
You don’t really need to ask that here. If you don’t hear from him afterward, you can assume he’s given up; if he starts contacting you again, then he clearly hasn’t.
So even if you found out whether he’s given up right now, nothing would change. Besides, at this point, it’s simply something no one but him can know.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s no way for other people to know whether you’ve really given up or not.
Honestly, I think the person who posted this question and the man who keeps pestering her with messages are two of a kind. Actually, that man might be the better person since he at least pays an allowance.