I’m the one who just asked whether some men might be put off or lose interest if the woman is the one who invites him to a hotel.

There probably isn’t a man who dislikes being invited by a woman. At a club, men are willing to pay not only the woman but the club as well just to spend time with her.

So you were asking what it means when a woman you’re already intimate with asks you to go to a hotel. Everyone sees things differently, so some men might find it too forward and feel put off or lose interest. Personally, I prefer women who are enthusiastic about having sex with me, so I’d usually be delighted to go to a hotel. I might feel a little ambivalent if a woman who wasn’t very good in bed invited me, but I generally wouldn’t continue seeing someone like that anyway, so it would be a rare situation.