I’m the person who asked the question below. Your advice was very helpful. However, since I paid around ¥300,000 when I joined, I’ll keep my membership until it expires. The problem was that I made the offer too casually. Thank you for pointing that out.

You can’t choose between all seven. That means none of the seven is truly a great match—they’re all just average. Since you joined a club, you should be able to quickly narrow five women down to one. You need to be able to find the one-in-ten match, or narrow a hundred down to your one best choice. It’s impossible for either of you to become the best partner the other has ever had in their life—ever—if you’re not willing to choose. She wants to choose and narrow things down too. If you’re afraid or too hesitant, she’ll only see you as being worth that much. Your lack of confidence is coming across to women. Now that you’ve gone to the trouble of joining a club, there’s no point unless you make offers to a hundred women, choose your best one, and become that best choice for her too. Just as men want a woman to like them enough to throw herself into the relationship, women want to feel that a man is willing to do the same for them. For a woman to feel comfortable taking that leap, you need to let her take the lead and playfully let yourself be guided by her. You also need to give her the sense of security that comes from embracing and watching over every part of who she is. She wants you to steer things skillfully and take the lead too. P.S. I’m not saying you have to make lots of offers. You could make an offer to just one woman, meet her seven times as often, or give her seven times the allowance. The point is to express how happy you are to see her and make her feel special. Whether it’s making offers or dealing with women, treat them with care. Don’t leave everything to someone else or act halfheartedly.