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Oct 8, 2022 23:32
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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Personally, I love doing it from behind, so that’s a shame.
It’s hard to say without knowing the reason.
Someone I know says he can’t do it from behind because his penis curves too much. If it’s physically difficult, give up on that position and master some others instead.
If it’s just a lack of experience, why not reach out to one of the older, more experienced women here with lots of stars and ask for some guidance?
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Age: Private
👨 Male
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Do you mean that, even though you’re not comfortable with it, the woman is asking for rear entry because it feels better for her?
If so, I think it would be best to ask her directly.
In the first place, if your partner isn’t willing to cooperate, there are probably more positions that won’t work than ones that will.
Other
Try placing your hands on her waist and pulling her gently toward you. Of course, make sure you move too.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I also used to have trouble with rear-entry sex in my private life.
After experimenting in various ways, I’ve recently started enjoying it with my club partner.
In my case, when it didn’t work, I think it was because moving my hips made me feel unstable.
Then I realized that trying to move my own hips was what was causing the problem.
It seems to work better if I keep my own position steady and move my partner instead.
As Taro mentioned in his answer, imagine holding the woman by the hips and moving them.
One thing that helped me realize this was watching adult videos. During rear-entry scenes, the man often holds the woman’s hand while moving, right?
When you actually try it, it keeps the man’s hips stable and feels much better.
I hope you’ll experiment with your partner and find a way to enjoy it too!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think you should ask your partner to practice with you, saying that you’re not good at doing it from behind and want to improve.
Other
I wish you’d explained a little more specifically what you struggle with(^^;
I feel like the most common issues are ending up hunched over because the heights don’t line up, or leaning too far forward and losing your balance. You might be more stable if you pull her in farther than you currently do. There are instructional videos by adult-film performers if you search for them, but apparently the most stable and pleasurable position is when she’s sitting roughly on top of you while you’re kneeling in seiza.
Also, rather than simply thrusting, it’s better to hold her hips and pull her toward you while moving back and forth. I’m not sure whether it’s an S&M accessory or something else, but I once saw an adult video where the woman wore a belt around her waist during rear-entry, and the man held both ends like reins and pulled while thrusting. The response was good, so I tried it myself and it worked pretty well.
I hope this helps. Then again, if you’re not comfortable with it, you don’t necessarily have to do it. With lying-down rear-entry, there probably isn’t as much of a difference in skill, so maybe that would work better for you. Quite a few women like that position too.
Taro