I know a papa (a male supporter) who got a new dog two months after his old one died.
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When my beloved dog died, I was so devastated by the loss that I couldn't even think about getting another dog right away.
He also apparently spent his time drinking and cheating, but when his ex-wife, unable to put up with it anymore, cheated just once, he couldn't forgive her. The next day, he stormed over to her parents' house and demanded a divorce.
Since he didn't want to be alone, he took custody of the younger of their two children, separating the child from their mother....
This papa seems to have a somewhat unusual mindset. What do you all think?
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I’ll answer only as far as the dog is concerned.
Please read *The Days with Haras*. According to its author, Koji Nakano, there are two types of dog lovers: those who remain haunted by the death of their dog and can never—or cannot for some time—have another one, and those who get a new dog right away so they won’t remain trapped in those memories. Joe belonged to the former group, while Mr. Nakano belonged to the latter. The questioner’s father is probably that type. It doesn’t seem to be as unusual or strange as the questioner thinks.
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I have to wonder whether the person asking this question really has a normal sense of social propriety.
Have you ever heard the saying, “Ten people, ten different colors”?
Everyone is different, so it’s not your place to criticize other people.
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What does “normal” even mean?
Everyone has their own idea of what’s normal, but we’re all different people, living in different circumstances and holding different values. So naturally, everyone thinks differently.
There are people around me who say things like, “I’ll get a dog when my current one is old and nearing the end,” or “Since my dog died, I’ll get a new one.”
I also know people who cheat constantly but can’t tolerate their wives cheating on them. Daigo from Chidori has said something similar, too.
As for custody, that’s a family matter, so I’m sure there are all kinds of circumstances.
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We live in an era of diversity, so there are all kinds of people out there.
If you find something unacceptable, you can simply keep your distance. If you can accept it, I think it’s best to keep in mind that people are all different.
In the past, there were more rigid ideas about how people were supposed to be, so anyone even slightly different was labeled “strange.”
But I don’t think we live in that kind of era anymore.
Take hair color, for example. People with anything other than black hair used to be considered strange, didn’t they? They couldn’t work at ordinary companies, and I believe it was even prohibited at schools. You hardly ever saw anyone with non-black hair out in public.
Things that were considered strange in the past don’t seem to strike many people as unusual anymore.
And I don’t really think there’s any need to go out of your way to report that there are “strange” people around.
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Apparently, people would generally call your papa (a male supporter) “mentally unstable.”
Isn’t that lucky? You don’t need to hesitate about getting him completely hooked and taking all his money.
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Everyone’s different, so people should do as they please. Since it’s someone else’s business, I don’t really care.
As far as you’re concerned, he’s your partner. If you feel he’s an unpleasant person, I think you should break up with him.
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