I have a papa (a male supporter) who keeps whining, “You can call me whenever you feel lonely at night. Rely on me moreeeee!!!” What should I say to him? (;ω;)
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Even though he doesn’t give me any money and doesn’t understand everything about me,
isn’t he treating me like a sex slave?
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I’m Kamihikōki, the “messy” guy who’ll come running whenever I’m called at night and treat you to a meal.
Outside the club, there’s no allowance, and even at the club there’s no set allowance. Sometimes the women will casually show up in something like pajamas, saying they don’t need anything today. We’ve even been mistaken for parent and child, relaxed together, discussed matchmaking, or had them ask my advice about gifts from their papa (a male supporter)...
Basically, just call me whenever you feel you need me.
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A friend once told me she had a papa who would even send her a taxi when she wanted to meet him after work and he was done with a drinking party—and he still gave her an allowance. Maybe you could mention that?
Honestly, if someone doesn’t provide an allowance, they’re not really a papa at all. If you’re seeing him anyway, are you actually in a regular relationship?
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If he doesn’t give you an allowance, I don’t think he’s a papa.
I also don’t understand what wanting someone to rely on you has to do with being connected to a sex slave.
You can’t possibly know everything about another person.
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I’d probably just stick my tongue out at that emotionally unstable papa in my head and say something like:
“I’m not really the lonely type, but if I ever do feel truly lonely, I’ll be sure to reach out.”
That said, there’s no denying that it feels good to be relied on.
A few of my monthly arrangement partners come straight to me whenever they have concerns about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I even help them draft their LINE messages and have them copy and paste them as-is. I’ll also help write messages for negotiating their allowance.
It feels good to be relied on, after all.
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