I saw an answer saying that popular women are pleasant and personable, but what exactly does “pleasant and personable” mean?

Maybe it would help to look at it the other way around. Think about the kinds of people you’ve liked so far. That might give you some idea of what makes someone personable and easy to get along with. That said, with dating clubs, you choose someone based on their photos and make an offer, so I don’t think how personable someone is directly correlates with the number of offers they receive. The number of offers is mainly determined by things like their profile and appearance.

First of all, I don’t think “being popular” really applies to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I think being popular refers to dating where no allowance is exchanged. If I had to sum up what it means to be pleasant and easy to get along with, without oversimplifying, I’d say: “not making the other person uncomfortable.” However, being considerate doesn’t necessarily make you pleasant. For example, even if you’re trying to be thoughtful, using the wrong approach can make the other person feel uncomfortable or uneasy. If someone tends to get nervous and lacks that kind of ability, simply trying to be considerate may leave them so stiff and awkward that it’s difficult for them to come across as pleasant. I think a pleasant person is someone who can make the other person feel comfortable naturally, without letting on that they’re making an effort. Besides, most people probably try to be considerate regardless of who they’re dealing with. Being excessively attentive doesn’t automatically make you pleasant.

My favorite girl (Type A) is a genius when it comes to making people feel comfortable. I truly think she’s gifted. She doesn’t even have to do anything—just being around her is healing. If I had to put it into words, we’re able to communicate naturally on a regular basis. She replies quickly and keeps things interesting on LINE (I use SMS), and she also takes the initiative to message me. I really don’t think a woman who takes an entire day to reply on LINE could possibly keep a generous papa in this world. And then there’s something else… Her eyes are unbelievably cute when she’s listening. When I bring up something serious, she switches gears instantly and looks back at me with an incredibly focused expression. It really makes my heart flutter.