I’ve never had someone stop responding after we met a second time—things have always continued—but if it happened, I probably wouldn’t contact her again.
Rather than simply ignoring her, I think it’s best to block her early on. If the messages still go through and show as read, the man may assume he still has a chance and keep messaging.
As others have said, he could potentially become a stalker, so you should be careful. Still, I think it’s better to end things cleanly as soon as possible.
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Are you turning them down clearly?
Men often interpret things in whatever way suits them, so it may actually be kinder to be direct with those kinds of men.
Looking back, there’s one woman who never clearly turned me down either.
I still had feelings for her, so I sent her a birthday gift via LINE a year later. She thanked me, but it felt like she had no intention of meeting me…
I’ve been trying not to contact her since then.
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What about a good papa you’ve grown distant from?
I still keep in touch with several girls even after we’ve ended things. That includes cases where the woman was the one who decided to end it. We sometimes meet up normally, too.
If his messages are bothering you, I think you should just block him. If you haven’t blocked him, he might take that to mean you still have some expectations.
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It’s really difficult to deal with messages from someone you previously faded out on.
If they’re saying things like, “I really, really want to see you!!” you might worry that blocking them will lead to retaliation—though it may be fine if you haven’t shared any personal information. Sometimes it feels like all you can do is keep dodging them vaguely.
For someone who’s being especially persistent, I’m thinking of saying something like, “I have a boyfriend now, so I can only do dinner only (no intimacy)…” But it’s still a hassle. It can’t be helped. People like that aren’t uncommon, so I suppose you just have to accept it as one of those papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) situations.
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Just ignore him. Men can be persistent.
Sometimes I look back on the past and feel nostalgic. We have a tendency to romanticize our memories.
But if you’re short on money, you could try asking for a ridiculously high amount—you might get lucky and make some money.
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