I feel like most women at dating clubs are putting up with things for the money, but are there really men who genuinely misunderstand that?
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They make an effort to please their partners, smiling and acting happy, cheerful, and upbeat because they’re being paid. That’s what dating-club activity is to me—or any relationship involving money, even outside a dating club. Without the money, I don’t think they’d try this hard.
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I used to think the same way you do, but after reading this Q&A site and various blogs, I was surprised to find that there are actually papa (male supporters) who aren’t like that.
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I know this will draw criticism, but to put it bluntly, women who can get a lot of money out of their papas generally have looks that are at least above a certain level, and either:
- They genuinely like older men and enjoy papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or
- Even if they have to put up with things, they never show it and do everything perfectly.
It’s probably one or the other.
Simply put, I don’t think anyone wants to stay in a long-term relationship with someone they hate being around.
It’s only natural here that women can’t keep trying without money. Actually, if someone told me it was okay even without money, I’d be scared it might turn into a romantic relationship, so I’d pass.
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Maybe they’re acting so entitled despite offering less than ¥50,000 per meeting because they genuinely don’t realize how out of touch they are.
At least, that’s what the old man sweeping the street was saying.
I don’t think that way, though, okay?
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I couldn’t bring myself to put up with it for ¥50,000 or even ¥500,000.
I might consider it for ¥5 million, but even then, I could probably only tolerate it a few times at most.
By the way, even sex workers who do this for a living generally just go through the motions because it’s their job.
Women who think of it as having sex they have to endure will usually tell you that they couldn’t do it even for ¥1 million.
So I do think they’re making compromises for me, but I don’t think they’re actually forcing themselves to endure it. To me, the feeling of “I wouldn’t go this far if I didn’t need the money” is what you’d call a compromise.
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I’m not the type to be overly particular about a woman’s behavior, but I can’t say I’ve ever felt like she was really making an effort.
If anything, I might be the one putting in more effort（笑).
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If you ask whether they exist, I’d say yes. Joe is like that, after all (lol). They may not be the majority, though.
I think there are papa supporters who become troublesome because they get the wrong idea, and others who become easier to get money out of. That’s just my gut feeling, but I suspect the questioner’s papa is the former.
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