Can male members choose several candidates when making an offer to a woman?

Not everyone picks out around five women and sends offers every time. Some people probably see one woman they like and make an offer to her alone. This time, it sounds like he told the staff what he was looking for, and they suddenly checked the woman’s availability. There are times when I feel it’s a little rude, but I suppose he’s young, so it can’t really be helped.

As long as we’re alive, we’re always competing with someone, so all we can do is grit our teeth and keep going. In this case, I want you to remember that there are women who rank below you, too. At the lounges in the major cities where I’ve been focusing my efforts lately, it’s by no means unusual to hear things like: - “My previous papa gave me 50,000 yen per meeting.” - “I was on a monthly allowance of 200,000 yen.” - “I used to date a papa who owned a hotel in Okinawa.” - “I had a little something going on with a celebrity.” Lounges are basically beauty pageants, after all. It’s a world where women who would be considered Black Class at Universe are merely Standard Class at a lounge. And while I used to swagger around Universe as a high-paying papa and had an undefeated record at men’s esthetic salons, at lounges I’m treated like a total nobody. *That said, I still haven’t met anyone above Ace level at a lounge.* It’s frustrating more often than not, but every now and then I do successfully land someone. I’m living an exciting life, feeling myself grow as a male courtesan (I really love that term, Taro-san ♡). At my age, I honestly have no idea what I’m even aiming for anymore. But I want to be popular no matter how old I get, and I don’t want to become an old man whom women will only entertain through a dating club. Let’s keep at it. Hard work always pays off. I’m off to do some slightly late strength training now. Today I’m going to work my adductors and abductors (tensor fasciae latae), along with my obliques.

Right, you can select multiple options. Also, when a woman cancels on the day, or the staff say something like, “Would you like us to find another woman?” it actually feels a bit too much like a sex service, which puts me off a little (lol). That said, meeting someone is ultimately just the starting point. Men can look at a woman’s photos, profile, and the staff’s comments, but more often than not, she comes across differently in person. Everything really begins after you meet. So there’s no need to worry too much about it. Rather than focusing on what happens before you meet, it’s far more valuable—and ultimately a bigger win—to meet her and make her want to see you again. Taro

> When male members send offers to women, are they able to choose from several candidates? Yes, they are. Could this time have been a case where a message that was supposed to be sent to a man was accidentally sent to a woman instead? If so, it might have included all the women that the man had made offers to. I’ve been saying for about five years now that processes where the outcome is the same whether handled by a person or automated should be automated. (A machine wouldn’t make mistakes, after all.) But until last year, there was only one programmer, so it wasn’t possible. Now that we have more programmers, we’ll have to see what happens going forward. That said, they’re also automating things that I think are better handled by people, which makes me worry a little. Some things really do need a human touch. If everything becomes automated, it’ll be no different from a dating app. And once that happens, I think they’ll lose out to companies with better expertise. A while ago, O Furniture caused quite a stir by saying they wanted to make their products cheaper and more accessible. In the end, the company disappeared—or rather, it came under another company’s umbrella. It made me wonder whether they understood how much effort other companies put into lowering prices without compromising quality. It’s the same here: if you don’t understand what makes your own company special, you can end up heading in the wrong direction. I think they need to carefully distinguish between what should be automated and where human skill should remain important. Anyway, I got off track. Even if a woman wasn’t the man’s first choice, men will often end up making her an offer sooner or later. There are occasionally women who remain the eternal second choice. For example, a man may say, “I’ll go with her this time, but next time I’ll make an offer to you.” Then a month passes, he becomes interested in yet another woman, and she ends up being second choice again. This can continue indefinitely, and the offer never actually happens. She’s always in second place. But usually, that’s not what happens. The following month, she may become his first choice and receive an offer. So don’t worry about what number you were when the offer was made. After being around for years, men have made offers to quite a large number of women. What matters is whether you can become his number one after meeting him. Put that aside and make the man completely smitten with you.

I understand why you feel unsettled, but unless you’re exceptionally beautiful, the first priority is getting offers in the first place. This may sound harsh, but you’re being a little naive. In this world, I don’t think you’ll make it unless you can honestly say, “I may not have been their first choice when they made the offer, but I don’t mind.”

After reading this question, I really understand how you feel. I think the club should reconsider the way it handles things, too. Am I the only one who feels that it’s disrespectful to women?

Yes, you can choose several women and make offers in order of priority, or make offers to all of them. So it’s not necessarily a compromise. Also, the women you rank highest when making offers aren’t necessarily the ones you’ll be most compatible with. Several of the women I’m still seeing are women I offered to after being recommended by the staff. In fact, with the exception of the unusual case of the person answering this question, every woman at the salon was recommended by the staff.