There are so many websites, apps, and social media platforms that I’m not sure which one to use. Could you tell me how you find people to connect with?
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The quickest way is to go to a matchmaking or singles’ party.
Next, if you go to a hostess club or lounge, you’ll get approached by tons of men.
Men’s esthetic salons are another option—you’ll get approached there fairly often too.
People have actually gotten married after meeting at parties or lounges like the ones mentioned above, so it really depends on what kind of encounter you’re looking for.
What I think would be best is going on a trip with old high school classmates and their friends, sort of like a group date.
It can be hard for things to develop naturally at a typical group date, but I highly recommend traveling together. You spend a lot more time together, including plenty of time alone, and the two people who hit it off often end up happily getting married.
For example, when everyone says, “Let’s go pick up some supplies” or “Let’s go play sports,” someone might stay behind because they want to play video games, the weather’s bad, or they’re injured. Somehow, a girl ends up staying behind too, and the two of them sometimes make it all the way to a happy ending… “Congratulations on getting married” and all that.
That never happened when I was younger, but these days, when I go alone to a bar or a restaurant with counter seating, women sometimes strike up a conversation with me. So I think that can happen at a nice place you like or frequent, too. The line was something like, “There’s so much food, so if you’d like, we could split it…” Maybe it was, “Want to share it?” or “Shall we have it together?”
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I’ve actually tried dating clubs, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) apps, paid-drinking apps, lounges, and bars.
They all have their pros and cons, but I’ll leave out the details since this would get quite long.
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Outside of clubs, I’d say places like men’s esthetic salons, lounges, massage parlors, stretching studios, and hair salons.
Since the start of this year, I’ve met more people through everyday encounters than through Universe Club.
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Since you’re asking here, I’d say the answer is:
Sign up with Universe and look for someone there.
If you think another approach would suit you better, it might be best to ask about that elsewhere.
Each option has its pros and cons.
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I think many people who prioritize safety choose dating clubs.
Also, a decent man probably wouldn’t use social media.
Apps seem to be a mixed bag.
When it comes to finding women, I sometimes think the truly exceptional ones are probably on the apps.
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