A question mainly for female members: What do you do if your first meeting falls on the day you expect your period? My relationship type is B, so I think I can politely decline if I’m invited to a hotel. However, when I consider the feelings of members who make an offer expecting things to progress beyond dinner, I feel bad turning down someone who seems like a particularly good person.
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So I’m wondering whether I should ask to reschedule the first meeting instead…
Some people make time for us despite being busy, and I imagine there are also people who only have that one day available that month.
I’d prefer to accept whenever possible rather than turn someone down.
On the other hand, some men might think, “If that was the only day I had available and you expected your period, I wish you had declined.” But considering that not everyone is necessarily thinking about going to a hotel that day, maybe it’s fine to accept the first meeting.
What do you all do in this situation?
Also, how do male members feel about it?
I’d love to hear everyone’s opinions.
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You may be misunderstanding Relationship Type B yourself.
With Relationship Type B, the first meeting ends after dinner only. I’m not sure what you mean by considering “the feelings of members who make an offer expecting something beyond dinner.”
Unless the man is mistaken, the first meeting should end after dinner.
Even if he asks to continue after dinner, I think he’s probably just asking on the off chance, fully expecting to be turned down.
However, if men are also misunderstanding the arrangement and keep pressuring you, please give the club feedback, saying something like:
“I was repeatedly pressured to have an adult relationship after dinner despite being Relationship Type B, and it was difficult to turn him down.”
Men who want an adult relationship after dinner from the first meeting should simply choose Relationship Type C or D.
Once a man has made an offer to a Relationship Type B woman, the first meeting is dinner only.
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If it’s a Type B arrangement, I don’t think there’s any problem at all.
If a male member gives you a hard time about it, say goodbye immediately—take the transportation money and move on.
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I don’t invite B-type women to a hotel on the first date, so unless she’s feeling unwell, I don’t think there’s any need to reschedule.
Actually, I usually have plans scheduled after a first date with a B-type woman. There have been several times when she said she’d be okay with going to a hotel, but I declined because I already had plans.
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If you’re a B type, there’s no need to reschedule, right?
Are you more of a C type—or secretly a C type?
Since you’re a B type, even if you hit it off on the first day and things start heading in that direction, it’s perfectly fine to say it’s “that time of the month” and put it off until next time. If you’re a C type, though, rescheduling would probably be better…
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