Tips Jul 5, 2022 14:17

I’m on a date with a girl right now—when would it be okay to invite her to a hotel? Any advice?

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I’m on my third date with a B-type girl who is a virgin. We went to a hotel on our second date. It was her first time at a love hotel, and she was wearing an unsexy sports bra. When she got undressed, she was trembling with nerves. I thought something seemed unusual, but she appeared to be quite sensitive and even climaxed from stimulation of her breasts and externally. When I put a finger inside, I noticed something felt different, so I asked if it might be her first time, and she admitted that she was a virgin. Apparently, when she interviewed at the club, they told her not to write “virgin” in her profile because people specifically looking for virgins would make offers, so she simply indicated that she had little experience with men. I didn’t know she was a virgin. That day, I apologized and said that if she had told me from the beginning, I would have treated her accordingly, and we stopped there without going any further. I assumed there wouldn’t be a third date, but surprisingly, she agreed without hesitation. As an apology of sorts, I’m taking her shopping at an outlet mall today. She keeps clinging to me—linking arms, or practically pressing her body against mine—and says that just walking around and looking at shops together is fun enough to make me blush. In the car on the way to the outlet, she said her stomach hurt, so I asked if she wanted to stop at a service area. She said she was fine but asked me to keep my hand there, and had me rub her stomach the entire way until we arrived. Does this mean she’s basically saying, “Take me to a hotel right now!”? I don’t like rushing straight to a hotel, so I’m planning to buy her some cute lingerie, have dinner, and then invite her. I’ve been with four virgins, including my current wife, so that part doesn’t bother me. But she’s completely different from how she was on our first and second dates, and I’m honestly pretty confused!
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茉莉花
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You’re a professional virgin, huh. ¥200,000? Marika
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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First, have dinner at the outlet mall, look around some more, stop for dessert, and then do a bit more shopping. On the drive home, buy some 100% fruit juice and then simply say: > “Shall we go to my place?” Or, “Do you want to go to a hotel?” / “Would a hotel be okay?” Alternatively, head back to the downtown area, go to a lingerie shop, have dinner, and then go to a hotel. If you need a little help from alcohol, stop by one or two places for drinks before heading to the hotel. P.S. If she’s really inexperienced, though, the way she > “clings to you—not just linking arms, but rubbing her body against you” seems kind of unnatural (almost professional) and creepy.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
“All it takes is saying, ‘Shall we get a room?’” You must be incredibly happy! I’m so jealous♡ As a congratulatory gift, please give her at least ¥200,000. A love hotel would be a little sad, so how about a nice room at a nearby city hotel? It doesn’t have to be a suite. Still, I can’t believe a situation like that actually exists. She sounds almost like your girlfriend. Please treat her well.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s actually ruder not to invite her. Give her at least ¥200,000. Since she’s nervous, you might want to have the adult relationship first and dinner afterward. Stopping halfway isn’t being considerate—it’s actually rude. Make sure you see it through to the end.
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