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Jun 12, 2022 09:38
I’m always grateful for everyone’s help here.
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I’d like to ask for advice about one of my papas (male supporters).
He wants a relationship that feels like dating, so I make sure not to give off any transactional vibes at all, and we call and message each other every day.
I’m very attracted to him as well, so being in a relationship that feels like dating isn’t difficult for me—in fact, I’m quite comfortable with the situation.
However, that doesn’t mean I want a relationship without an allowance, and he certainly doesn’t expect to get away without giving me one.
Still, since our time together feels like time spent as a couple, there have been occasions when he forgot to give me my allowance—about twice.
But I feel awkward asking for it when we’re saying goodbye, because I worry it would ruin the mood we’ve created.
He messages me on LINE saying, “I forgot to give you your allowance! I’ll definitely give it to you next time,” but...
I feel uncomfortable receiving it all together the next time, so I’d really appreciate it if he could remember to give it to me each time.
He’s not someone who is trying to get away without giving me an allowance at all,
which makes it even harder for me to bring it up.
Have any of you ever had a papa forget to give you your allowance?
And if a man forgot, how could you remind him without ruining the mood?
What would be a good way to bring it up?
I’d really appreciate your advice.