I’ve met some wonderful men, and each of them is impressive both socially and emotionally. I’d like to pursue a relationship with all of them, but one man told me, “Your dates are always scheduled more than two weeks out. I understand you’re seeing other men, but couldn’t we meet a little sooner?” I’m seeing multiple men.
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How should I explain this to him?
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“If you want to be involved with every one of them because they’re all wonderful men…”
That actually means none of them is truly wonderful, so it might be best to reset and start over.
If you want to be involved with every single one, you’ve been doing papa-katsu with such unremarkable (and unselectable) men that it’s just a waste of time and money.
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“I'm sorry… Work has been so busy, and I’ve been working late all the time, so I’m not very good at juggling different plans. I get exhausted from work, but I have to keep working to make ends meet. I really wish I could spend more time with you, ○○ (>_<) I’m sorry.”
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They may have various excuses, like being busy with work or having plans with friends—though for some girls, those excuses are genuinely true.
But judging from your situation, if this papa (male supporter) knows you’re seeing other men, the only way to raise his priority is to offer something the others don’t. So, as Kazu suggested, I think it’s fine to say, “I’ll prioritize you if you increase my allowance.”
I’m honestly curious what goes through the minds of men who understand the situation and still ask questions like that. Is he trying to test you?
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