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May 24, 2022 01:57
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I want to leave early.
He insists on using me as an armrest, so I can’t do anything during that time. And I can’t exactly sleep deeply either because I have to stay alert.
That said, I feel like it would seem rude to use my phone while the old guy is asleep, so I spend the whole hour and a half putting up with his bad breath and the uncomfortable armrest position.
I wish he’d at least stop using me as an armrest.
Doesn’t holding that awkward position put strain on you and leave you sore? lol
Also, like the person in the question below, he sleeps like a log, so our dates end up lasting about six hours.
If he stopped sleeping so soundly, we could wrap things up in a little over four hours.
How can I end the date early with this old guy who sleeps like a log?
Should I shake him awake? But he’s an older guy, so if I wake him suddenly, could he be startled and drop dead of a heart attack?
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Don’t put up with it.
If you want to leave, or want dates to be limited to four hours, just say so.
Since you haven’t said anything, I think they’re assuming you’re okay with it.
茉莉花
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Other
If she’s sleeping that deeply, wouldn’t she sleep through anything?
Honestly, you might even consider it lucky if she wakes up.
I have a bad neck, so I can’t use someone’s arm as a pillow. I explain that from the start and avoid it.
—Marika
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
A couple of weeks ago, I had an adult relationship with my regular, wore her out so completely she could barely move, and left her at the hotel saying,
“I’m off to a men’s esthetic massage place♪”
I never fall asleep, though. I stick to the agreed end time no matter what—three hours, exactly.
After that, I managed to win over one of the two most famous top-tier men’s esthetic massage therapists and get her into a monthly arrangement, so I’m feeling pretty satisfied with myself.
Men’s esthetic massage therapists will often fall for you on their own if you simply don’t do anything, so it’s easier than winning over a Type A girl at Universe. Any male members who want to pursue a Type A or Type A-leaning Type B but aren’t having much luck should try a men’s esthetic massage place. There are tons of unbelievably cute girls there~
あや
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Other
If it were me, I’d probably just watch Netflix or browse social media on my phone. If you bring earbuds, their snoring won’t bother you either.
太郎
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Other
I know this sounds like a problematic arrangement, but…
I honestly can’t understand what “I feel bad using my phone while the older guy is sleeping” is supposed to mean. What exactly are you trying to be considerate about?? If you don’t like being used as an armrest, just roll over or fidget around. If that wakes him up, you can say you’re going to take a shower and get up. And if he stays asleep, you can simply get up and watch TV or use your phone. Why do you have to remain there with his arm around you while he sleeps? Is he threatening to kill you if you don’t? If so, how terrifying. But if not, and you’re continuing to devote yourself to pleasing your “owner,” perhaps you’ve been possessed by the spirit of a frog frozen in fear by a snake. Or maybe it’s the spirit of a middle-aged Hachiko, still waiting for its owner who died in an accident. Though, thinking about it calmly, I decided you’re probably just a total masochist.
As for your question, you can do whatever you want. Wake-up pranks have been a staple of variety shows for over 30 years, and even the person subjected to the “wake-up bazooka”—which I thought was the harshest one—was perfectly fine afterward. So I think you’ll be okay as long as it’s anything short of that.
Taro
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re really suffering through papa-katsu again.
You can do and say anything with your real father, after all.
And with a papa (a male supporter), you’re allowed to do and say anything too.
Some girls sleep with him for an hour and a half, while others don’t sleep with him at all.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with telling him you’re in the latter group. If he seems unhappy about it, that just means he’s inexperienced.
Dump him right away.