Compared with when we first started seeing each other, her responses have gradually become more distant. I don't know whether she has gotten a boyfriend or found a more generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), but she's proactive about making our next plans, so it doesn't seem like she wants to end things.
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In this kind of situation, what would you all do? Here are the actions I'm considering.
1. End things and make a new offer to someone else
2. Make more of an effort to become closer
3. Do nothing in particular
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If it were me, I’d say, “Things have started to feel a bit distant, haven’t they?”
I want her to tell me when she’s unhappy, so I make a point of expressing my own feelings too.
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Hone your sexual skills.
So you can captivate a woman’s heart and body, making her feel like she can’t pull away anymore.
And if possible, work on your tongue too.
Not just for oral technique—having a palate that can appreciate different flavors also goes a long way toward earning a woman’s trust.
On top of that, if your hands are truly skilled, you’ll be unbeatable—not only in sex.
Even something as simple as a massage can make a woman completely relax and melt from the inside out when it’s done by someone she knows and trusts. She may become so sensitive that it turns into a sensual massage, complete with intense orgasms, and you won’t even need “Ultraman time” anymore.
As for your mindset:
You don’t need to “work hard.” What matters is your way of thinking.
It’s not about you wanting sex.
It’s about:
- the kind of sex she wants,
- restaurants she’ll genuinely enjoy—not just expensive places, or places you can only say are “delicious,” which is the worst,
- and the kind of skilled massage that makes her happy.
You get to enjoy doing all the things she wants while receiving an allowance, too.
And it’s easy to tell whether things will actually work out that way. It may sound harsh, but…
You can see it in someone’s face and expressions—whether they’ve really lived that way for decades.
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I think she’s gotten used to it and doesn’t feel the need to be as considerate anymore.
If it were me, I wouldn’t do anything in particular, but I’d try to get a little closer.
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I haven’t had anyone become distant with me so far, so this is just speculation, but as Marika suggested, I think it would be best to keep him around while also accepting offers from new people.
That said, the change in attitude may not be entirely his fault, so it might be worth reflecting on how you’ve been treating him as well. If things have simply become routine, I think both sides may be contributing to it.
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