I’ve been using the service for about five years now.

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A question for the male members: Over the past year or so, does anyone else feel like the class ratings have become inconsistent? The range seems all over the place, from people at the level of a dating café to those who are basically disguised C-class members. Could the recession have brought out more random people...? I’ve had three consecutive completely dud introductions. That never used to happen in the past...

Answer 1

I’ve been doing this for five years too, and not much has changed for me. Getting three duds in a row happens all the time. Maybe you just weren’t very good at judging people, or maybe you were unlucky. Chalk it up to experience and move on to the next one. I’d like you to take a look at my column. When I first joined five years ago, I also had back-to-back cancellations. Are the class ratings really that inconsistent? Since you’re choosing them after seeing their faces, does it really matter either way? As the saying goes, learn from the other person’s behavior and reflect on your own, haha. After five years, you’ve gotten older, and maybe your scent has become stronger, you have more age spots, or your overall sense of cleanliness has declined. It’s also possible that women’s opinion of you has gone down.

Answer 2

Women think this way too: “Ughhhh (deep sigh), there really aren’t any good papas left, are there? An allowance of just 5,000 yen...? I’d be better off working at a men’s esthetic salon...”

Answer 3

I don’t see how having three consecutive bad matches is connected to the class setting. Maybe it simply means you weren’t compatible with those women, regardless of their class. It’s also possible that you’ve recently become more arrogant, or that you approached them based on the old, lower allowance rates even though the going rate has gone up. Another possibility is that, although you’re five years older now, you interacted with the women as if you still had the same appeal you did five years ago. Some time ago, one of the other respondents mentioned that as you get older, you should increase the allowance accordingly. Perhaps that time has come for you now. Time passes equally for everyone, and aging happens to everyone. When you were younger, you probably dated women without having to pay an allowance. The reason you’re paying one now is that you’re no longer young. Maybe you should think carefully about what a dating club really is and start by taking a hard look at yourself. As people have said before, class settings can vary depending on the staff member, the branch, and whether it’s in Tokyo or a regional area. That has always been the case. However, men can judge for themselves by looking at the list of women, since there are photos, comments, and so on. So I think the class setting and whether or not things go well between you and a woman are two separate issues.

Answer 4

There may be some misrepresentation, but don’t you think there’s probably a standard that keeps the class level from changing? ( ˙꒳˙ )??? Maybe after five years, the questioner’s eye for beauty has gotten sharper? Personally, though, I wondered if the screening has actually become stricter because more people want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Paper Airplane ▶ Thank you (lol). I just wanted to say it, so no worries~! I feel like I’m probably always around 100th place in the rankings among men(´；ω；｀) lol Taro ▶ I’ve never worked in the nightlife industry (lol). I get nervous and end up flustered like this: (･ﾟдﾟ`≡･ﾟдﾟ`)ｱﾜｱﾜ ← This is me freaking out the whole time (＞＜) I asked them to change my name to Maezawa (ㆁᴗㆁ✿). So, around the end of June~

Answer 5

I’ve only been using clubs for a year, so I can’t speak to how things were five years ago, but I’ve never experienced anything like a bounced payment. (Actually, does that mean being turned down for an adult relationship?) There have been a lot of posts about bad papas lately, but I can’t tell whether there are actually more of them or whether they’ve always existed and information about them is simply spreading more easily online. As the market grows, I think both the good and the bad increase, so there may be more good girls as well. The same probably applies to the papa side, so perhaps some people are losing out in that competition. It’s hard to know whether Universe’s overall quality has declined without comparing it with other clubs, so it might be worth making that comparison.

Answer 6

As a result of all the papa-katsu marketing and the sheer amount of information out there, I do get the impression that there are more sly women who’ve picked up questionable tricks without having the resolve to match. I also feel that the number of new members has dropped a little compared with before, and that the overall quality has declined. That’s just my personal impression, though. There’s no denying that this club has by far the most registered members, and even if your chances have gone down, you can still make the right offers if you have the eye and intuition to spot the gems among them. Before complaining about the club, work on sharpening your own instincts. I’d also recommend joining other clubs at the same time. It’s quite something when the multiple registrations are completely obvious. I’ll say it again: I think complaining about your circumstances is something second- or third-rate people do. If you develop the ability to find and make offers to the women you’re looking for, no matter what environment you’re in, there’s no problem. What is this activity supposed to be, anyway? Is it really something you can openly discuss with anyone and claim rights over? If you choose to live in a gray area, isn’t taking responsibility for yourself no matter what happens supposed to be a matter of pride? The post complaining about the club sounds pretty self-important, but honestly, I thought he came across as a pathetic man. Sorry, my true feelings slipped out（笑） P.S. Kami Hikoki, what happened to you? You’re seriously creepy. I got goosebumps reading that. Wonderful. By the way, I thought Awawa was called that because she came from a soapland. Clearly, I was completely wrong. I’m truly sorry for everything. Please accept my heartfelt apologies. Taro

Answer 7

How can you stay supported by someone for four or five years? What exactly are you doing? Is it really possible to go to a fishing pond and not catch a single fish? And what does it mean that you can’t even catch any decent fish? That’s how the other person sees you. > Awawa-san Actually, I’ve met two of the female respondents in person. Since neither of them mentioned my name in their answers, I’m left wondering: “??” What do they think of me—and which two are they? Maybe we’ll both keep it a secret forever. If it’s meant to be, things will fly our way like a paper airplane, so I’m looking forward to seeing how it all turns out. I once considered making my club name public as “Paper Airplane,” like Mac-san, but I decided against it because it might cause trouble if one of my favorite women is still registered or hears about it from a friend. At the moment, I’ve stopped not only making new offers but also accepting reverse offers… > Taro-san I started writing a reply because I thought I should, but—oh no, did I mess up? It ended up feeling half-finished.

Answer 8

Is there any connection between a fake C and the class designation? I haven’t felt that the class designation has been inconsistent over the past year or so.

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