A papa (a male supporter) I parted ways with because we couldn’t agree on the allowance keeps messaging me on LINE, but he only sends bland, harmless messages without mentioning papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). What does he want?
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He also said some unpleasant things besides the allowance issue, so I have no intention of seeing him again. Would it be okay to block him…?
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You could simply reply that you’re ending the arrangement because you got a boyfriend or got busier with work.
But since you said he made some unpleasant comments, it’s also understandable to block him outright if dealing with him feels like too much trouble.
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I think you should simply tell him that you’re not interested in pursuing a relationship.
If he still contacts you after that, you can block him.
I don’t think blocking him right from the start is the best approach.
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You’re clearly a favorite of his.
It might be a good idea to exchange LINE messages for a little while, as long as you make it clear upfront that you can’t pursue a relationship with him.
If you don’t even want to exchange LINE messages, I’d suggest telling him that you can’t be involved with him before blocking him.
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> Since he also said things that made you uncomfortable, I don’t think there’s any problem with blocking him.
If you’re worried about upsetting the club, I don’t think you need to be.
That said, just to be safe, you could tell the club something like:
“He said some really awful things to me, so could you please hide my profile from this man only?”
That way, they’ll have a note on file about what kind of awful things he said.
So even if the man suddenly complains to the club that you’re a terrible woman for blocking him, they’ll be able to understand that he was actually at fault and that’s why you blocked him.
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If you can’t agree on the allowance and the other person is saying hurtful things to you, I think it’s fine to block them.
However, if they know any personal information about you—such as your address, real name, or workplace—you should be careful about how you cut ties with someone who seems persistent.
One of the girls I’m seeing was also harassed by a strange person, and I helped her deal with it.
Apparently, he said things along the lines of, “You’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because you need money, so how dare you turn me down? You’re being way too picky.”
I don’t know exactly what was said to you, but I think you should at least give the club some feedback.
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