https:\/\/universe-club.jp\/help\/questions\/view\/13021\r\nI’m the person who asked about the allowance.\r\nThank you all so much for your many answers.\r\nFrom now on, when I’m asked how much I’m hoping for, I’ll clearly say 6, since that’s what I’m hoping for. (Until now, I haven’t answered clearly, so it ended up being 5.)\r\nIf the man says 5, even though I’m really hoping for 6 or more, I’ll say something like, “You seem kind, so 5 is fine.”\r\n\r\nAlso, the reason things didn’t work out with the people offering 6 or 7 is that I’ve been talking with quite a few men. So, when a man invited me out, I often couldn’t make time, which made them realize I had other papas and led them to fade out. There were also quite a few times when someone said, “I don’t mind if you’re seeing someone else, so you can be honest with me,” but after I explained the situation, they stopped replying. So from now on, I’ll be more careful not to let on that I’m seeing other people.\r\nOf course, it may also be that I’m lacking in appeal, so I’ll continue working on both my appearance and my personality.\r\n\r\nAlso, on another dating club, I was able to set my desired allowance, and within a few days of registering, I received about three offers starting at 6. So I’m thinking of putting more effort into that site as well.\r\n\r\nThank you all very much.

Haha, it’s fun being on a dating club, isn’t it? LOL Good luck!

If a man offers 50,000 yen, I’m thinking of saying, “I usually ask for 60,000 or more, but you seem kind, so 50,000 is fine.” “You don’t need to add, ‘I usually ask for 60,000 or more.’” They’ll figure it out while you’re arranging the date anyway.

> Since my preference is my preference, I clearly told him “6.” (Until now, it had ended up being 5 because I hadn’t given a clear answer.) Hmm… Maybe I didn’t explain myself very well, but being too direct could also lower the man’s impression of you. Of course, I do think you should tell him, but I think you should be thoughtful about how you say it. For example, you could ask what he has in mind, and if he says 5, you could act a little hesitant. If he still doesn’t get the hint, you might say something like, “In that case, I think I’ll head home today.” Then you wait to see if he picks up on it and raises it to 6, 7, or 10. If he doesn’t, you could subtly steer the conversation toward leaving. On the other hand, if you actually like the man and think you’d be okay with the 5 he offered, you could say something like: “My preference was 7, but you seem like such a kind person, so I’m okay with 5.” You may want to phrase it a little differently, though. Something along those lines might work better. By the way, with other dating clubs, one advantage is that you can clearly state the woman’s desired allowance. But conversely, if it says 6, you may be restricted from negotiating for 7 or more after meeting him. Also, informing men of the woman’s desired allowance could be interpreted as meaning that this is not a relationship based on free choice. That could potentially lead to the dating club being investigated for violating the Anti-Prostitution Law or the Adult Entertainment Business Law. In that case, female and male members alike could potentially be questioned by the police or even arrested, so I think it’s something to keep in mind. The reason Universe cannot tell men how much allowance a woman wants is that—although doing so would prevent men from mistakenly offering women too little—it eliminates that risk and allows the club to operate properly as a dating club. P.S. Wait, this isn’t really a question, is it...? ><