I’m the person who asked the question three posts below, “When you receive an offer from the club…”
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Thank you for your clear and helpful answer.
I was a little surprised to learn from your response that men don’t get older unless they update their age themselves.
The man I met the other day looked considerably older than his stated age (no offense…), so I thought, “Maybe he was giving a younger age!” It suddenly made sense. Haha.
Still, we had a great time and he was a really nice person, so I don’t think his age matters that much after all.
I have a separate question.
I assume the club sends a feedback survey after a date, but there was one time when I didn’t receive one.
Does that mean the gentleman chose not to submit a review?
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> He looked considerably older than his stated age (no offense), so I thought, “Maybe he gave a younger age after all!” It finally made sense. Haha.
Women enter the date of birth on their ID into the system, and their age is calculated and displayed automatically, so it gets updated accordingly.
Men, however, don’t enter the date of birth from their ID, so their age often remains whatever it was when they joined.
What’s more, requests like “I’m 60, but could you list me as being in my 50s?” may actually be approved.
Since “in your 50s” technically means up to age 59, they seem to think, “It’s only a one-year difference between 59 and 60, so this should be fine.”
So, if a man joined at 60, requested to be listed as being in his 50s, and five years had passed since he joined, he could end up being 65 but still listed as being in his 50s.
It seems a bit outrageous, but they apparently assume that once men reach a certain age, younger women can’t really tell the difference anyway.
If there were men aged 50, 60, and 65, a woman around 50 would probably be able to tell them apart.
But to women in their 20s, I feel they would look completely indistinguishable.
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I also had one time when I couldn’t receive it properly!
The message about that day’s offer said, “Please do it manually,” so maybe there was some kind of glitch that day?
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> The person I met the other day looked considerably older than his actual age (no offense…), so it suddenly occurred to me that maybe he’d lied about his age! lol
Haha（笑）
Some people really do resort to sneaky tactics like that, huh?（笑）
I’d like to look even a little younger too（笑）, but I don’t think there’s any need to actually lie about your age. It’s just an unavoidable reality, after all…
That said, women say things like “he’s creepy” or “he stinks” pretty harshly too, so I can’t say I don’t understand how they feel.
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Both men and women are required to leave a review.
Even if the gentleman says he doesn’t want to, it’s a club rule.
If you don’t receive one, contact the staff and ask them to send it to you.
So you were the type who changed your own age after all…
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I used to have no idea how men’s ratings were being used, but star ratings for male members were introduced last November.
So male members now have to accept both good and bad reviews. (There’s no option to decline being rated.)
In the past, the post-date survey didn’t always arrive, but now I believe it’s automatically sent five days after the date.
Letter Dates work the same way—the survey is sent five days after the match is made. I feel this system needs improvement, since we’re being asked to complete a survey before we’ve actually met in person.
That said, I’m not upset enough to make a strong complaint, so I’m just watching things for now…
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