Tips Apr 13, 2022 12:56

I’d like to ask about something that’s been bothering me for a while.

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I also have a regular daytime job and work until 6 p.m. every weekday. My profile clearly states: “On weekdays, please arrange meetings for 6:30 p.m. or later.” Even so, I often receive offers for 3 or 5 p.m. on weekdays. I explain the situation to the staff each time, and they change the time to 6:30 p.m. or later. The staff members who contact me on LINE are always different, so I’ve had to explain the same thing to more than ten different people already. The other day, I received an offer for 4 p.m. on a weekday, so I replied, “I’m working, so on weekdays, please schedule it for 6:30 p.m. or later.” But then the same staff member contacted me again on LINE and asked, “How about 3 p.m. on a different weekday?” Can’t this be managed through the system or something? I feel it also creates extra work for the male members.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Some women receive no offers at all, so I think you should be grateful that you’ve had more than ten offers and simply say, “Please make it after 6:30 p.m. each time.” If that feels like too much of a hassle, save it as a template in your LINE notes and copy and paste it whenever needed.
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I think this is about how the club manages the offers you receive. The club is simply forwarding offers mechanically without properly keeping track of each member’s situation. I believe this is a downside of the recent organizational restructuring.
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Why is that? You’d think they’d make offers based on the time available… Normally, on weekdays, I’d offer to meet at 7 p.m. Is it because people started doing things earlier during the pandemic? Are they just asking even though they know it probably won’t work? Or are these men who enjoy wasting time? I honestly don’t get it.
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The system isn’t going to change overnight. If a man tells the staff, “She may say no, but could you ask her just in case?” then the staff really has no choice but to check with the woman. This is the kind of hassle that comes with having lots of offers. I’m sure there are plenty of other people who can properly make offers for evening times, so I think you should simply choose someone and stop accepting new offers. Marika
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