I like sex, but I don’t like being penetrated for more than 3–5 minutes. I’m not the type to climax from penetration (even with over 30 partners and having sex 2–3 times a week, I still can’t climax), so anything longer is simply painful. I feel the same way with men my own age. No matter how many positions we try, like from behind and so on, the man ultimately finishes in either the missionary or cowgirl position, so I’d like them to stop resisting unnecessarily.
If it goes on too long—more than 10 minutes—I ask, “Do you think you’re close?”
How does it feel for men when someone says that? Does it make you feel rushed? Or make you think she’s uncomfortable?
Sometimes I can’t hold back and finish when I’m on top, but it wears me out. In the missionary position, the man can control himself better, so...
Please tell me how to get him to finish quickly without making him feel rushed.
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> How can I get him to climax quickly without making him feel rushed?
Apparently, there are people out there with all kinds of techniques. Some can even make a man feel as though he’s being penetrated when he isn’t.
Hotaru from “Bōkarashi” boldly declared:
“Is there anyone I can’t bring down?!”
Keep practicing and improving.
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Wasn’t sex supposed to be something you enjoy?
If it were me, I’d want to try different positions and watch him enjoy himself from above while I’m on top.
There are ways to help him finish quickly. Try using his anus—the tightness may help, and if he can climax from anal, it’ll probably happen in no time.
Also, don’t ask him, “Are you close?” From his perspective, it sounds the same as being told, “Hurry up, you’re terrible at this.”
Instead, try to really savor watching him enjoy himself. Sex like that isn’t fun, is it?
If you’re going to do it, you might as well enjoy it♡
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When you say you don’t do tiring cowgirl and just want the guy to finish quickly in three minutes, I honestly thought, “If I were a man, I wouldn’t want to have sex with you.”
I also read your additional question, but even if you’re good at giving oral, I’d still feel put off.
—Marika
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That’s a pretty short amount of time.
The only solutions I can think of are:
- Find a papa who finishes quickly
- Just put up with it for about 10 minutes
- Improve your oral skills and get him right to the edge that way
- Pretend to be enjoying it and pretend to climax (but don’t overdo it)
In papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), satisfaction with sex is one of the biggest factors in whether an arrangement continues. So if there’s a papa you’d like to keep seeing, make sure you satisfy him.
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If the woman climaxes before penetration, the man will be happy too, and three minutes may be enough. It depends on whether you can both reach peak excitement—and on your compatibility.
Basically, no one can keep sprinting at full speed for a full minute, so if you can maintain the peak for three minutes, both partners should be able to climax.
To make that happen, I think it’s fine to tell him what you want and guide him so that you’re enjoying yourself enough to make him happy, too.
When a man is highly aroused, it can take less than a minute for him to climax—but if he isn’t aroused, he may not be able to even after dozens of minutes. The key is figuring out how to get both of you, yourself included, into an aroused state together.
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