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Mar 23, 2022 06:36
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How long do you usually spend being all cuddly and affectionate after intimacy? One hour? Two hours? Three hours? I can’t see an end to it and don’t know what to do. How long is it natural to go along with it?
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Some men may want to cuddle and be affectionate for hours afterward, but they probably realize themselves that it’s longer than usual.
That said, they may be intentionally looking for a woman who’s willing to spend a long time being affectionate. So if you cut things short, he might continue seeing you while also looking for other women.
With that in mind, I think he’ll probably sense that after about 20 minutes, it may be difficult for him to keep going much longer. So when it’s been around that long, try asking, “Would it be okay if I took a shower?”
If he says, “Just a little longer,” spend another 10 minutes or so with him, then ask again.
Also, he may intend to resume being affectionate after you come out of the shower, so I think it’s best to start getting dressed right away.
Getting dressed immediately afterward can often be a turnoff, but if 20–30 minutes have passed, he’ll probably understand that it’s only natural.
> How long is it natural to stay affectionate?
I’ll go with the 30-minute theory.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not really into being overly touchy-feely, so even when I do it, it’s only for a few minutes.
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We’ll spend about two hours watching TV or dozing off while I’m resting my head on his arm. Maybe it’s because my skin feels nice—he seems to want to touch me, so we end up starting again sometimes(笑)
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The time for the date, including the meal, is agreed on in advance, so it stays within that timeframe. At most, it’s four hours total, so I’d say the cuddly time is probably around 30 minutes.
When I’m in the mood for some cuddling, I go to a men’s esthetic salon. An absolutely stunning beauty spends a full two hours cuddling with me, so it’s amazing. I’m getting addicted—or rather, I already am.
I’ve also been casually hinting at one of my favorite girls about starting a relationship. It seems like it might work out. Having a generous allowance makes things easier in situations like this. Even so, I tell them it’s 120,000 yen per meeting, so among monthly arrangements, that’s actually on the lower end.
As someone mentioned in a previous question, when you get really good at cuddling, men can get hooked, so I hope you’ll do your best within what you can handle.
#Men’s esthetic salons might be where the most beautiful women are gathering right now
#A hangout for beautiful women who are afraid of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’d say around 30 minutes to an hour at most…
If you’re seeing someone through a club, why not plan the date so that the total time together is around four hours?
At least, that’s what I keep in mind when I go on dates. (Though sometimes it ends up running a little longer…)