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Mar 22, 2022 22:04
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
As the relationship continues and you become closer, some women may stop sending thank-you messages.
For now, why not message her on LINE to arrange your next date without bringing up the re-registration?
Once you’ve made plans, meet in person and then bring up the re-registration.
She may simply have been seeing multiple men and re-registered after ending things with another man.
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Other
Maybe something changed in her feelings or circumstances. If I were in your position, I’d assume something happened that made her stop seeing you as her one and only steady, long-term customer.
If you want to keep things going, send her a message. Bringing up that you saw she re-registered, or making a big deal out of it, would only add fuel to the fire, so act as though you never saw it and carry on as usual—while being a little considerate, haha.
If she doesn’t reply, then it’s over. Even if she does reply, I’d still consider it a danger zone until you’re able to meet again and things remain stable for another month or two. The question is whether you can survive as one of her supporters—not her only one—or work your way back up to being her sole supporter. You’ve got a long road ahead.
That said, I think it’s time to do what you can while also considering what you’ll do if things don’t work out and looking into other offers.
Taro
フラグメーカー
Male
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I believe it’s important to have the guts to consume additives too—not just natural and organic foods. Know what’s in them, eat them, and turn them into nourishment.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
This is exactly why it’s better to hide men you’ve already gone on a date with.
Why are you looking at the profile of a woman you can no longer make an offer to? The person asking this is seriously creepy.
You should remove her from your favorites so you can’t view her profile anymore.
Even if a woman registers again, her previous information is carried over, so after going on a date, you should immediately ask the staff to hide her profile from you individually.
Isn’t it creepy that a man who made an offer years ago is still looking at her profile even now?
綾瀬なな
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Other
If you acted however you pleased just because you were giving her money, she may have grown tired of it and decided to end things.
Is there really nothing you can think of that might have caused this? Instead of overthinking it, why not try messaging her?
You may be seeing other people as well, right? I’ve seen several questions lately from people wondering whether they should tell their partner after getting an STI. Are you okay? Please get tested at least once a month.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think she just wrote that they broke up because it’s a safe, innocuous reason to give for re-registering.