I think the man probably felt that the allowance should really have been 50,000 yen, but raised it to 100,000 because you agreed to go on the trip with him.
I think it was a mistake to go on a trip for the money when you two aren’t even that close.
Rather than complaining about it, just say what you really think.
That said, you need to seriously consider the risk that it could lead to the relationship ending.
If you don’t want to break things off but feel the allowance is too low, then next time he suggests a trip, just make up some reason and turn him down.
By the way, I think the reason other dating clubs haven’t been raided is that they’re treated the same as adult-entertainment businesses that appear to tolerate full-service encounters.
When they do conduct a raid, it happens suddenly, so I hope Universe Club stays as it is for the time being.
> What do you think the breakdown is?
> > It’s usually 50,000 yen per meeting…
Since it was a two-night stay, I assume he calculated it as 50,000 yen × 2 nights = 100,000 yen.
That said, since the usual 50,000 yen applies even without staying overnight, I think it would have been reasonable to confirm in advance whether it would be 50,000 yen × 3 days = 150,000 yen from the outset.
Also, if you had made it clear from the beginning that you’d generally prefer to meet without staying over and that overnight stays were something special, it might not have turned into a simple ×2 or ×3 calculation.
Instead, it could have become more of a discussion about how much extra would be acceptable for a trip.
Either way, I think confirming the terms in advance is essential.
> Men tend to underestimate the allowance.
Maybe a lot of women in regional areas simply accept those terms.
For example, if you meet five men and all five tell you that the allowance is only 20,000 yen, many women might think, “I’d heard there were a lot of wealthy men at dating clubs, but I guess this is what it’s really like.”
In the greater Tokyo area, however, there are many men who know how dating clubs work. So I imagine men who offer a low allowance may also be recognized by women as low-paying men.
There are also many dating clubs in the Tokyo area besides Universe. If a woman has experience with other dating clubs, she is more or less forced to learn how much allowance is normally given.
With Universe, however, they can’t get involved with allowances because they comply with the law. In regional areas where there are no other dating clubs, this may result in low allowances becoming commonplace.
It would be great if Universe could make women’s desired allowances visible on their profiles, like other dating clubs do, but that would probably be difficult without changes to the current laws >＜
Still, why don’t the other dating clubs get investigated? Does making women’s allowances visible really not violate the law...?
I spent most of the three-day weekend working, but for the first time in a while, I made an offer to a Type C and met her. Something felt off, though, so I decided not to invite her to continue and we parted ways. Turns out she really was a person to avoid.
I guess Type C just isn’t for me after all. It was a three-day weekend that reminded me my intuition is surprisingly reliable.
This overlaps with what I wrote in my previous answer, but:
I had yakiniku in Akasaka with an overseas papa, then went to the luxury high-rise condo he bought, where I happened to run into executives from a certain IT company and my fangirl side got excited.
Then I went to Roppongi with another papa for a birthday party for one of his subordinates. We drank champagne in Nishi-Azabu until morning, and I got drunk for the first time in ages.
And now I’m staying with him in a suite at the Grand ○ Hyatt in Roppongi. If 100,000 yen felt like too little to you, maybe you simply don’t like that person very much…
