I joined this dating club and have met more than 10 men. At present, I receive between 60,000 and 100,000 yen for an adult relationship (intimate), and around six men have entered into an adult relationship with me at 60,000 yen or more. There were also about three men who offered 50,000 yen and entered into an adult relationship with me, but I didn’t feel I could continue seeing them, so I declined to continue with two of them. However, considering the current situation, it seems that 50,000 yen may actually be a reasonable offer. Since the difference between 60,000 and 50,000 yen is only 10,000 yen, I’m wondering whether I should have accepted the 50,000-yen arrangements from the perspective of the total amount I could earn.
Thank you in advance for your advice.
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If I had to give one piece of advice, it would be: “Learn to read people.” Or, put another way, “Bet on people.”
I generally kept things at a 50,000-yen allowance. But I’d sometimes give an extra 100,000 yen or so around bonus time, so in the end it was basically 60,000 yen or more on a pay-per-meeting basis.
If they cut things off before my bonus came in, part of me would think, “What a waste. They really can’t read people.” But another part of me was thinking, “Well, at least I’m saving money.”
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Do you want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
Or are you trying to earn money as a job?
If it’s the former, you should choose based on how comfortable you feel, not the allowance amount.
If it’s the latter, narrow it down to allowances of 60,000 yen or more.
I don’t continue seeing women who are fixated on their desired amount or the allowance.
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Even with a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), it can be painful if your physical or personality compatibility is off, while it can be enjoyable if you click. If you didn’t feel like continuing, perhaps something just wasn’t a good fit.
That’s all there is to it, so I don’t think you need to overthink it.
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I think you should do whatever feels right for you.
There’s not much difference between 5 and 10, so you could choose to date only people offering 10 or more. Likewise, since 6 and 3 aren’t all that different, you could choose to date anyone offering 3 or more.
That’s just how numbers are, in my opinion.
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You’re getting plenty of offers, and since you currently have several men interested—and don’t seem dissatisfied with the amounts—why not prioritize your compatibility with them instead?!
Six feels kind of awkwardly in-between.
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It’s hard to say without knowing how much you’re looking for in total allowance.
If you’re already seeing six men continuously, each paying an allowance of 6 or more, personally, I don’t see much reason to keep seeing a man who pays 5.
That said, if the choice were between putting up with a man I dislike for an allowance of 10 and seeing a good man for an allowance of 5, I’d choose the latter.
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