My papa has recently started putting in less effort. He used to take me to high-end restaurants and Michelin-starred places, but lately he’s been taking me to random local restaurants that even students or office workers could afford. Other papas still take me to nice places, so I don’t understand what this papa is thinking by cutting corners. He’s a nice person, but I don’t feel excited when the food isn’t good. Does this mean he doesn’t like me that much? Is he adjusting his budget because of other women?
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I’m starting to lose the desire to see him, although I’ll probably continue meeting him for the money. Even if I ask him, I doubt he’ll tell me how he really feels. What do you think is going through his mind?
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The only women I’ve been seeing for years are the ones who don’t care where we eat. I’m the kind of person who’s fine with going to a high-end restaurant only once in a while.
The one who’s my MVP is a student who apparently worked part-time at one and actually likes going to the kind of place everyone calls Saizeriya.
I do make sure to give her the allowance in cash, though.
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My guess is that your papa (a male supporter) is probably getting tired of seeing you. Since you’re not really feeling it, he may not be feeling it either.
Just as you’re thinking that other papas are better, he may be thinking that he’d rather be with someone else.
If you don’t want to end things, think of some way to reignite his interest. If you’re okay with ending it, you can just leave things as they are.
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(1) If the papa is “not” wealthy
→ He likes upscale restaurants but can’t afford to go often, so he started taking her to more casual places.
→ ★ He simply didn’t like upscale restaurants to begin with.
(2) If the papa is quite wealthy
→ ★ He simply didn’t like upscale restaurants to begin with.
→ Because you’re the kind of woman he’d feel embarrassed taking to an upscale restaurant.
I came up with four possible explanations, but I feel the most likely one is ★ that he simply didn’t like upscale restaurants to begin with.
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He wasn’t a papa, but someone I used to date once told me that he regularly went to French restaurants and other upscale places for work, so he didn’t really want to go to those kinds of restaurants in his personal time.
We did go to nice restaurants for anniversaries and other special occasions, of course, but normally we went to places nearby rather than always choosing upscale restaurants.
So I’m guessing your papa also goes to those kinds of places for business, and prefers going somewhere more casual with someone he feels comfortable with. For better or worse, it probably means he’s gotten more comfortable around you.
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That man probably prefers casual restaurants to high-end places or Michelin-starred restaurants in the first place. Since he’s gotten comfortable with you, I think he’s showing you his true self.
Besides, if he personally preferred the former kind of restaurant, he’d go to those places regardless of who he was with.
If another papa (a male supporter) takes you to nice restaurants, isn’t that good enough?
Do you really want to eat high-end cuisine that often?
—Marika
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