Are men’s ratings not really that reliable?

I’m not sure whether the questioner’s assumption is correct, but some women may not leave feedback, so the ratings may not be entirely reliable. That said, if a rating of 3 is the default, as it is for women, it may not indicate whether the rating is good or bad—it could simply mean that no rating or feedback has been received. I also get the impression that there are occasionally women who haven’t received any ratings either.

This question feels somewhat contrived, but assuming it’s genuine: I’ve rarely seen people receiving an allowance of 80,000 or 100,000 yen who also had low ratings. It makes me wonder whether the man the questioner happened to meet was simply problematic. > “If he doesn’t like her, there’s no adult relationship, so women rate him poorly.” I’ve never seen a complaint or message like that, nor did I ever hear anything like it from women when I was conducting interviews. Come to think of it, when the rating system was introduced, there were people complaining that ratings wouldn’t accurately reflect reality because men could have their scores lowered that way. It does make me wonder whether that man is pretending to be a woman and posting this. I don’t know where this attitude—completely looking down on women—comes from, but I’ve never heard of a woman complaining simply because an adult relationship didn’t happen. If anything, it’s more like she puts up with things again and again, and only complains when the man continues treating her carelessly despite everything. > “The former spends a large amount of money on women he likes…” Calling 80,000 or 100,000 yen a large amount makes me want to cry at how little they know about the world… It doesn’t seem like an especially large amount to me.

If you don’t think the star ratings are reliable, you can simply ignore them… Also, I assume you understand that new members naturally start with a three-star rating. As for the former person’s low rating, I think your assumption about the reason is off the mark.

You can come up with endless stories after the fact, so your theory might be right—or it might be completely off.