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Mar 13, 2022 16:06
4 answers
Other
You met someone with no sense of tact or consideration. That must have hurt.
It’s the same as—or worse than—grabbing that area with his nails, gnawing at it with his teeth, or gripping it while it’s still dry and moving his hand vigorously up and down.
Even if you can get a sense of what he’s like over dinner, you wouldn’t expect someone to be that rough.
A man who shows no consideration is stressful, so I think it’s perfectly fine to end things. But if his allowance is good, you could say something like, “Your nails are getting long—I’ll trim them for you♡” and give him a little too close a trim.
Akari
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
First of all, I think it’s basic common sense to check how long the other person’s fingernails are while you’re having dinner.
This happened because you were too lax, so put up with it and learn from it for next time.
Other
It may be difficult, but if you really want to take action, I recommend consulting the police or a lawyer. Alternatively, it may be best to end the relationship.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
The elements required for an assault causing injury charge are apparently:
1. Assault
2. Injury
3. A causal relationship between the assault and the injury
4. Intent
First of all, I don’t think any assault took place here. And even if we assume it was done forcibly, I don’t think there was the intent required under point 4.
So I don’t think it would constitute assault causing injury.
That said, if you had told the man something like, “If your nails are long next time, I’ll refuse and leave even after entering the room,” and he still forced himself on you, then it seems possible that you might be able to pursue a different charge.
However, it would come down to a dispute over what was and wasn’t said, or whether you consented, so you would need evidence.
That said, if you didn’t like it, you could simply choose not to see him again.