If someone hired a private investigator or detective, they could find out that I joined this site, right??
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There are probably heartless people who take screenshots too…
I might be able to bluff and say I haven’t met anyone, but if they investigated, it seems like they’d find something…
To carry the generally frowned-upon fact that I “sold my body” for the rest of my life, and only get 30,000–50,000 yen for it… It makes me think what a sad world we live in (＞＜)
What do you all think?
I agree with Kazu.
Almost no one here sees it as buying or selling, because we value the relationships between people.
Sometimes I wonder if the person asking the question is the type who feels that working for a company also means selling their body—or whether they’d even see Olympic athletes that way.
Being unable to think of it in any other way seems rather sad to me.
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I don’t remember ever selling my body.
If 30,000–50,000 yen isn’t enough for me, I just do my best to earn a higher allowance.
Isn’t it amazing that I get to spend a fun time together, feel good, and even receive an allowance on top of that?
I’m nothing but grateful to the men I meet!!
That’s why I’ll do my best to please them as much as I can!
Of course, I’m aware that I’m doing something I can’t exactly tell people about.
I may be fine with it, but I’m sure those around me would still be confused.
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You’ve got the basics wrong.
As Kas-san also said, a dating club is for dating—not for selling your body.
That said, I’m sure some members approach these relationships as if they were transactions. But I believe far more members take the time to get to know their partner properly and build a genuine relationship.
Because an allowance is involved, it may feel transactional. But I see the allowance as a kind of contract fee for bringing together and maintaining a connection between men and women who otherwise would never have met.
So I don’t think a relationship can last if you approach it purely as a transaction.
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You feel that way because you’re approaching papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) as if it were sex work.
As I’ve said before, if you’re selling your body, isn’t even ¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement cheap?
Or are you satisfied because you’re getting more than other women and it gives you a sense of superiority?
If so, I think that’s a very sad way of thinking.
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I think Kaz is right.
Also, if you’re struggling financially and have doubts about this kind of activity, your best option is probably to focus on working a regular job.
Or you could try asking your boss or company president for a raise.
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The person asking the question may be selling or buying sex, but most people are simply dating.
Adding this after reading Rin’s answer:
> Well, I’m aware that I’m doing something I can’t really tell people about.
Well, people generally don’t tell others that they had sex with their boyfriend or husband yesterday, either.
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