How should I end things with my papa (a male supporter)?
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Usually, I end things by not making another arrangement, but he likes to message me on LINE frequently, so that approach wouldn’t stop the daily messages, and I can’t seem to say goodbye. Please tell me how I can end things with as little trouble as possible.
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If you want to avoid any trouble, something like this should work:
“For personal reasons, I’ve decided to stop doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for now.
I have no particular complaints about you, but this is where we part ways.
I won’t be responding to any further messages, but thank you for everything.”
They may send you several LINE messages afterward, but I think it’s fine to leave them unread.
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There’s no need to overthink it.
I can’t tell what kind of relationship you have from the question alone, but I think it would be best to simply tell your papa (a male supporter) that you want to end things. He’ll probably understand.
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How about saying goodbye without making another plan to meet, then letting him know via LINE that you won’t be able to continue seeing him?
If you’re quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) altogether, you could tell him that as well.
However, if it’s a woman you’ve been seeing for over a year, I think I’d meet her in person and explain the situation.
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I think it depends on how long you’ve been seeing each other and how serious the relationship is.
You could gradually reduce how often you reply on LINE, tell him you’ve gotten a boyfriend or are getting married, or simply say you’re quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Without knowing the situation, it’s hard to say.
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