Can women who start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in college because they dread their part-time jobs really become full-time employees and keep working after entering the workforce? I’m concerned they may start feeling that working is pointless. Am I the only one who gets the impression that many of the unemployed women I see at the club are women who started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) while they were still students?
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I’m worried that we’ll see more students like the one in the previous question in the future.
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Women you see at the club who are basically NEETs despite being adults
→ How do you know there are so many women like that? Is it because you’re making offers to those kinds of girls?
Still, I understand how you feel. I wouldn’t want to become an adult NEET girl either, and even working in the nightlife industry was out of the question for me when I was in college, so I do feel like we’re simply different types of people.
If it irritates you, you should avoid getting involved with girls who seem like that.
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No one’s calling out this loose woman, so allow me to do it.
You’re really going to say that when you’re a limp-dicked guy trolling dating clubs for partners? LOL
Devout Catholics, please stop butting in and stick to having sex with your spouses for the purpose of making babies.
As for working adults who are NEETs, that’s their own problem, so I don’t really care.
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The concern raised by the questioner isn’t limited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
It’s something that has long been common among sex workers: just like how it can become difficult to return to a regular day job.
It also depends on how they did papa-katsu while in university.
I don’t think there’s necessarily a problem with women who received, say, an extra ¥100,000 a month on top of their part-time income, those with clear goals such as paying off student loans, or those saving or investing for the future.
The risky ones are women who don’t have anything in particular they want to do and simply get large amounts of money without much effort.
But women like that also seem likely to lose demand fairly quickly.
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I guess it depends on the person.
Some people can stay grounded while doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), while others may start to lose their sense of financial reality if they receive too much allowance for too little time.
Even so, sooner or later the demand will fade, or they’ll stop for their own reasons, so it’ll be fine. Those who know how to handle it can keep doing well for life—no matter what world they’re in.
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There will probably always be a certain number of people who raise concerns, but I don’t think their numbers will grow, since fewer cases work out as well as people expect.
That’s because there seem to be quite a few men who aren’t particularly sharp, either.
If more good men join, I think the women will become more sophisticated as well. And since some women are capable of keeping their jobs and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) separate, I don’t think there’s as much to worry about as people might think.
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That sounds fine. You’re keeping your work and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) separate.
You mentioned that, as a new employee, your salary is low and it’s barely enough to live on（笑）.
In my case, it was during COVID, so the job-hunting process was chaotic. I helped with career advice, and even after they started working, I became the person they vented to about their coworkers and bosses（笑）.
Everyone with a regular job gets complained about（笑）.
It seems like you’re enjoying your work and finding it fulfilling.
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