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Mar 12, 2022 21:10
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
What a waste!
You’ve missed a huge opportunity, questioner, with a woman that rare.
Fuu does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) specifically to meet women like that. I’ve made plenty of offers while looking for one.
Please introduce me to her.
Oh, what a waste… what a waste.
Hmm?
Is this really a question from a male member?
Would a male member really refer to themselves as “old men”?
フラグメーカー
Male
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
And then?
I think Akashiya Sanma would probably say something like this: “And then? If there’s no punchline, you’ll be killed in hell.”
👨 Male
Universe member
Yes, we’re out here. I’m one of them.
There’s a 40-plus-year age gap… I was shocked when we first met, too!
She was all about the money, and dressed like a princess! I thought there was no way this would work, but she gradually changed afterward.
I’ve introduced her a few times, but she’s gone from saying:
“Maybe I was just a country bumpkin.”
“To the Date-san look.”
And, to top it all off:
“Formerly handsome.”
We’ve been together for four years now, and women really do change when they change, haha.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think it would be best to compare notes with the woman herself.
People are different, so I don’t think you can draw a general conclusion for everyone.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
As Aya mentioned, with girls around 20 whom I meet outside the club, it’s more like:
> I have dinner or go to a hotel for free with some ordinary older guy I’ve fallen for.
I even lived with someone in the past.
With the club, though, things tend to go more smoothly with women who are a little older—around 3–5 years older.
あや
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Other
They do exist, but they’re a very small minority, and quite a lot of girls are suppressing their true feelings for the money. I think men who are less sensitive to that aspect are more likely to enjoy dating clubs. We also often get questioners here who seem to mistake them for some kind of sex industry.
Incidentally, girls who genuinely like older men usually don’t go the route of making money through dating clubs, unpleasant as it may sound. Instead, they’ll have dinner or go to a hotel for free with an older man they’ve fallen for.
An acquaintance of mine dated a 34-year-old man when she was 17, and later married a man 15 years older than her, so I got the impression she had always preferred older men. It didn’t even seem to occur to her to receive money from him in the first place.