After finishing inside, do you pull out right away, or do you hold and kiss your partner for a while?

I’d also appreciate it if you could stop making posts that sound like ads for sex work.

Please refrain from posting as though unprotected sex were the norm, as it could mislead other female members and women who are considering joining.

I can’t help but think that this is how STIs spread: people casually hinting on message boards like this that they have unprotected sex. It’s frightening. Many STIs have more serious consequences for women than for men. Even chlamydia, which is considered relatively mild, may end with urethritis for men, but for women it can be a serious illness that causes infertility. By the way, 80% of women with chlamydia have no symptoms. Many don’t realize they’re infected, leave it untreated, and end up unable to have children. They must regret it endlessly, wondering who they caught it from. Syphilis is also on the rise. Since the COVID pandemic began, infection rates have reached record highs, with a particularly sharp increase among women in their 20s and men over 40. There’s also data showing that contracting an STI and developing inflammation of the mucous membranes can increase the risk of HIV infection by three to five times. Before kissing or hugging, shouldn’t there be a more important kind of consideration? I assume you at least take precautions such as getting tested every month and having only one partner. Surely you’re not really that irresponsible. I’m sorry, but just like the girls on this Q&A site venting their frustrations about older men, the older guys obsessed with going bareback or finishing inside are a nuisance too. To all the men who love unprotected sex: please have the awareness and resolve to recognize that you may be carriers of frightening viruses and bacteria, and that your actions could affect a woman’s entire life. Please practice safe sex.