If a guy doesn’t take me seriously, should I stop pursuing him?
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We had been messaging on LINE and made plans to meet, but I got carried away and started messaging him frequently.
Then, on the day we were supposed to meet, he suddenly messaged me to change the time.
I was honestly like, “Huh?”
There’s a chance he might not even show up if I go to the meeting place today, right?
I feel so pathetic.
Isn’t he from an agency?!
If he is, I doubt he would simply disappear… The man is the one paying the offer fee, after all.
Are you using an app?!
Please be careful.
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If it feels like a game of push and pull, you don’t have to continue.
A time change on the day itself can also be taken as a sign that they still want to meet.
You’re more likely to have good things happen if you expect them to, and I think that positive attitude comes across to the other person too.
Besides, when it comes to relationships between men and women—not work—things are more enjoyable when you meet someone you genuinely want to pursue or make compromises for. So there’s no need to overthink the whole push-and-pull dynamic.
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I think you may be overthinking the strategy.
It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s taking you lightly.
Most men wouldn’t ask to change the time on the day of the meeting or simply not show up just because you’ve been messaging frequently on LINE. Of course, there’s still a chance he might not show up today, but I don’t think that would be because you’ve been exchanging messages so often.
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