I always struggle with what to wear on dates with my papa—whether to wear designer brands or not.
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I don’t want my papa to look down on me, so I usually go for a simple outfit with a few high-end designer pieces.
From a man’s perspective, would seeing that make him think, “She must have other papas too,” and put him off?
A man here once offered me an adult relationship (intimate) for 30,000 or 40,000 yen, and I felt like he was looking down on me（笑）. I can’t believe there are people like that here! Of course, I turned him down.
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Wearing luxury brands doesn’t mean you’ll be offered a higher allowance.
An allowance is simply the price a man puts on his own desires. If you meet a man who values his desires highly, you’ll naturally receive a higher allowance—that’s all.
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I don’t judge someone by the price of what they’re wearing.
A woman wearing Moncler can still be boring, while a woman wearing Snidel can still be wonderful.
That man probably would have offered you 30,000 or 40,000 yen, no matter what you were wearing.
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I had the price range of Snidel wrong. I’d like to correct that to: “A woman wearing GRL can still be wonderful.”
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Wearing high-end brands doesn’t necessarily mean people won’t take you lightly, nor does it mean you’ll receive a higher allowance.
I do think you look more vibrant when you dress in a way you genuinely like. That said, if you’re dressed head-to-toe in luxury brands, people might assume you’re expensive to keep—especially if you’re young.
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I wouldn’t be put off, and the allowance wouldn’t change based on whether the clothes were expensive or cheap.
Whether an outfit suits her and matches his preferences might be one factor in his decision, though.
That man probably offered that amount regardless of what she was wearing. As long as both parties agree on the allowance, I think that’s perfectly fine. So I think you did the right thing by clearly declining this time instead of accepting an amount below what you wanted.
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Men who aren’t interested in high-end brands won’t notice even if you’re wearing them, lol.
It’s like a baby-faced woman putting on heavy makeup. You really don’t need to do that, though…
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