What are the characteristics of a girl who seems to have a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter)?
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I feel like I’m giving the woman I’m seeing a substantial allowance, but she accepts it as if it were only natural. We haven’t gotten any closer at all.
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Increasing the allowance is meant to make up for the man’s shortcomings.
That’s also why it makes sense that someone previously said the allowance should increase with the man’s age.
You can make up for the negatives and bring things to a neutral point, but I think it’s difficult to turn that into a positive with nothing more than a relatively large allowance.
It’s easy to get a car that only goes 100 km/h up to 200 km/h, but getting a car that can go 300 km/h up to 400 km/h is extremely difficult. The cost involved is completely different too.
In much the same way, reaching a neutral point is easy—you can simply increase the allowance. But to make things genuinely positive, I think you need skills beyond just offering more money.
Besides, what the poster considers a “large allowance” may not actually be that large.
If the allowance were truly substantial, I think you would at least have reached a neutral point by now. From there, you should aim for a positive outcome through your overall ability to show consideration for the woman, be thoughtful toward the people around you, such as restaurant staff, choose suitable places, and so on.
Still, it must be difficult if you give her around 200,000 yen every time and still can’t become closer.
Wait—when you say it’s a large amount, surely you don’t mean it’s actually less than that, right?
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It’s hard to say without knowing what you mean by “becoming closer.”
In some cases, I adjust to the mistress’s schedule when I’m seeing someone who has a generous papa—or rather, a lover. But people like that don’t treat you that way, so I think the issue may simply be with you, regardless of whether you have a generous papa or not.
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It sounds like you’re seeing him because the allowance is high. I don’t think the issue is whether you have another generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter).
I don’t know you personally, so I can’t say what’s putting him off, but at the very least, it doesn’t seem like he’s fond of you. You’d probably be happier ending things and looking for someone you genuinely click with.
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Even with a generous allowance, there are papas (male supporters) I dread meeting. It depends on things like compatibility and whether they take good care of their appearance. Of course, if the allowance is low, I may be even less inclined to see them.
So you really can’t tell whether a woman has a generous (well-paying) papa just from her reaction when he gives her an allowance.
If you don’t click with someone, I think it’s difficult no matter how many times you meet. The best you can do is keep making lots of offers and hope you eventually find someone compatible.
My papa probably made an incredible number of offers too, but there are women he became close with and others he didn’t—and I’m sure some women disliked him as well.
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Becoming close with a papa-katsu woman—that’s something only people known as “masters” or “mentors” in this world can pull off.
For almost everyone else, it’s just a fantasy and impossible to achieve. Give up.
I may or may not have become close with a former papa-katsu woman. I don’t know whether that’s a good thing or a bad thing.
This afternoon, I met up with a former romantic partner who used to do papa-katsu, and the three of us—her daughter’s child, her, and me—played in the sandbox at a park. Does that count as being close? I honestly don’t know myself.
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