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What are some gestures or behaviors that make you think a woman is experienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?

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I’d say I’m good at negotiating my allowance. Marika
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
It’s not a gesture or an action, but… 1) Her LINE messages are generic templates—something she could easily reuse with anyone. 2) They don’t include the papa’s real name or club name, or she calls him by a generic pet name that could work for anyone. I think women who have lots of papas and know how to play the game are especially thorough about point 2. The protagonist of Kurumi Inui’s *Initiation Love* uses this very tactic. —It’s me
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Experienced girls may be quick and efficient when negotiating their allowance or handling things at a hotel. However, truly seasoned players can also act like beginners, so I think it’s difficult to tell.
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フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t have any good memories of inexperienced girls.
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I was all flustered on LINE again yesterday (*´•ω•`*)… Let’s be all flustered together~! Other than that, I’ve basically been taught everything by the male members (๑>◡<๑) I’ve never received money outside of work either, so I feel a little uncomfortable about it.
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If they were experienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think they’d know how to handle things without making the other person feel that way in the first place, so I can’t really identify any specific gestures or behaviors at this point. I’ve met girls on apps who seemed pretty jaded, but at a club, the staff’s comments help you avoid that to some extent, so I haven’t encountered anyone like that there.
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