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Mar 11, 2022 11:57
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Am I the only one who feels that women who seem a little unfortunate or lonely have a certain vulnerability—and sex appeal?
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I think sensuality is restrained eroticism, though there may also be such a thing as uninhibited sensuality. I find The Tale of Genji sensual, but I’m sure some people wouldn’t understand why.
It’s different for everyone.
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Other
It’s the contrast.
In a word, I’m drawn to people with a wide range of sides to them—people who don’t just seem unhappy or lonely, but who can swing just as far in the opposite direction.
Light and shadow
Movement and stillness
Reason and instinct
Gentleness and severity
They can lean one way, then the other, yet somehow keep their balance at the center. I think that’s what makes both women and men most erotic—and what gives them energy.
People whose hearts are truly moving are, after all, the ones who attract others the most.
It’s me.
Other
Compared with when I was younger, I’ve started to find women with a delicate, fleeting aura more alluring too. Maybe that’s something that comes with age.
I’m drawn to women like Hikono Kasai, Takehisa Yumeji’s beloved.
Though I only know her from photographs.
Other
I think people experience it in different ways.
Some people find a voluptuous, direct look sexy, while others may feel the way you do.
As I got older, I started finding the women dancing in the Awa Odori incredibly alluring, even though they show almost no skin and their body lines aren’t visible at all. It made me realize that our perception can change with age, too.
In short, I just wanted to say that it’s different for everyone.
Marika