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Mar 10, 2022 21:43
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My ex-boyfriends always thanked me, treated my body gently afterward, and even brought me something to drink. They absolutely doted on me. I mean, I thought that was normal, but what’s wrong with guys who don’t say a word of thanks?
I endured their delayed ejaculation and their smell, and really tried even though I didn’t like them—can’t you at least say thank you? I’m at the point where I want them to get down on their knees and thank me.
Saying “But I paid you an allowance” is just an excuse. That’s a separate matter from the allowance, isn’t it?
How many years have you been living as a human being?
7 answers
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never said “thank you” after ejaculating either.
For one thing, things end without me ejaculating about half the time anyway, lol.
If anything, they’re more often surprised that I’ve made them feel good.
You feel that way because you’re having sex while putting up with things you don’t like.
Other
Would you say “thank you” after ejaculation in a normal boyfriend-girlfriend relationship? Were all your ex-boyfriends French or something?
That said, if it were a sex worker, I would say “thank you,” since they’re doing it as part of their job.
In a dating club, if I get the impression that the other person sees it as amateur prostitution, I’ll say “thank you.” I won’t meet them again, so I aim to part ways politely and without any trouble.
Taro
Other
I can’t understand the mindset that you should naturally be thanked for having sex, even by your boyfriend.
Other
“Thanks” after he finishes? To your boyfriend?
I hope he isn’t thinking, “Thanks for letting me do it for free.”
Marika
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Thank you: 3. Sorry: 7.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t say it.
It’s a one-on-one relationship between two people, so regardless of whether he ejaculates, I say “thank you” when I’m grateful and “I’m sorry” when I feel I should apologize.
Other
I don’t say thank you.
I do always try to be kind, though. Consideration is important from both sides, right?
To me, a kind but broke boyfriend—who lets his girlfriend do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—and a partner who pays an allowance but isn’t kind are both equally at fault.
If he really adores her, I think he should work hard enough to make sure she never has to go without.