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Mar 8, 2022 09:01
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I also have a papa (a male supporter) in his seventies who treats me extremely well. If he were to pass away, I would like to attend his funeral, but sometimes I wonder whether it would be appropriate to meet his family. I would appreciate any advice.
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Marika, you’re absolutely amazing! I don’t have the words to express it, but my heart feels so warm right now!
Other
Unfortunately, I only found out after we had parted ways, so I didn’t attend the funeral.
I had met his wife as well, and I think she probably had some idea about my relationship with her husband.
By the way, I learned of his passing through the death notices in the Nikkei.
It was heartbreaking.
Marika
I wondered what I would have done if we had still been together, but a mistress is someone who can’t appear in the public eye. Going there and upsetting his family wouldn’t be right.
If it were me, I’d probably just visit his grave quietly on my own.