It seems none of the respondents have ever been treated horribly by a man, do they?
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They all seem to be women who’ve just been lucky.
There are so many questions I can relate to, yet hardly any respondents seem to empathize. It’s strange.
There really are awful men out there.
Please don’t tell me that you don’t think that’s true.
I’ve come to feel that men have no value beyond their money.
Since signing up here, I feel like my personality is getting worse and worse.
How many years have you all been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
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The fact that someone is doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place means they’ve already entered a very risky area as a woman, so I’m not sure it makes much sense to compare who’s “better” or “worse” within that context.
If you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I do question your basic sense of ethics—or your character—in the first place.
As I mentioned in another answer earlier, I’ve had unpleasant experiences related to STIs, too.
No one has asked a question specifically about this, so I haven’t answered it, but I’ve had a papa (a male supporter) turn into a stalker, and I’ve also had blatantly defamatory posts and my personal information put online. I had to hire a lawyer to get them taken down. If someone asked a question like this, I think I’d explain how to deal with it.
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I’ve had to swallow a lot of tears myself…
But a sensible adult knows better than to go around telling people about things like that.
Whether it makes you bitter or not is ultimately up to you, don’t you think?
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I just don’t mention it every single time.
I’ve been stalked and held captive before.
When I had an affair, I even discovered another side of myself.
I’ve been through all kinds of things. I try to think of it as life experience.
I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for almost a year now. Maybe I should throw a one-year anniversary party…
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I’ve been registered with SALON for a little over six months now.
Maybe I’ve simply been lucky enough to be introduced to some good people, but I’ve never been treated badly. I don’t have much experience yet, so that could still happen in the future… but if I feel someone isn’t a good match for me, I’ll just turn them down.
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I believe you make your own luck.
I also think it’s important to walk away before things become complicated. A terrible man usually doesn’t suddenly change overnight—there are probably warning signs along the way.
I’ve been with clubs for about a year and a half, but I’ve been in allowance-based relationships for around 15 years.
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Some women endure terrible treatment, yet still make it through life with strength and a good personality. They can drink muddy water and turn it into nourishment.
That’s more attractive than someone who only ever sips from the clear surface.
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I’ve been doing this for about four years.
The person I’m seeing has also encountered some awful—or rather, strange—men, but it seems she’s been able to turn them down properly. She’s been told some terrible things, but thankfully it hasn’t gone as far as anyone doing anything awful to her or treating her badly.
For now, I’m lucky that the people around me are so terrible that simply acting normally makes me look good by comparison.
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It’s not that I’ve never had bad experiences. I just don’t dwell on unpleasant things, and I avoid situations before they become serious. I’m simply surprised by how many young women are doing papa-katsu without even having the proper ability to recognize and avoid people to steer clear of.
I think it’s also fair to say that the people answering are those who’ve been lucky enough to meet a good papa (a male supporter) and are happy with their situation.
Marika
Oh, I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for about three years, but if you count from when I first became a mistress, it’s been nearly 20 years—though, of course, there have been gaps.
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Do you know what a negative cycle is?
Some women say they’ve never really been treated badly.
The two women I currently have good relationships with on a monthly arrangement are like that.
The more a woman talks about all the terrible things that have happened to her, the more she seems to give off a negative aura.
Unfortunately, relationships with women like that often don’t last.
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