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He told me, “I don’t see anyone else either, so I’ll treat you like my girlfriend.” But what would you do if you found out he was secretly seeing other women and actually paying them properly?

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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Some people believe that if you get deceived, it’s your own fault. Honestly, I can’t understand how anyone could genuinely believe that there were no other women.
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Whether he’s hiding it or not, it’s awful that other women receive an allowance while you get nothing. I think you should tell him not to forget that you met through a dating club. Though if you say that, you’ll almost certainly be ending things. Marika
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So, now that you’re his girlfriend, he no longer gives you an allowance, while he still gives one to other women? If that’s the case, I think you’re better off ending things and looking for someone else. Unless he’s covering your entire rent and letting you use his credit card, of course.
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だて◎ゆめ
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Haha, that’s a good question. Isn’t that usually the woman’s concern? lol I hope you two get along well... In a club survey from a little while ago, it seemed there were more men dating just one woman, like me, than men seeing multiple women. I had just been thinking that there must be quite a few male members in one-person arrangements, too.
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It’s a dating club, so I think that’s just how it is. That said, I can understand why you’d want to believe it. So I think it’s important to keep things from getting too serious and maintain a balanced relationship.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’ll follow my heart. Are you really someone who just does whatever other people tell you?
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